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You may wonder what I refer to, or perhaps not, but I am actually writing in response to Doug Wilson’s, “No Forgiveness at All for the Pasty White Orcs of Northern European Descent.” It was some good preaching, some good venting. You can be wrong six ways past Sunday but if you’re at least being honest, speaking what’s on your heart, I tend to appreciate that sort of thing.
So what’s my beef? The post is completely devoid of empathy and too busy licking it’s own wounds to even consider the needs of others. Perish the thought of ever actually listening to anyone else. Like, in spite of all the politics and hysteria, racism is actually a real thing. People are sinners, the world is broken, and so logically one can conclude people are often going to be hurt by our poor behavior. Being victimized by others is a real thing.
There is this big, huge, difference between “count it all joy,” when we suffer for Christ’s sake, and a bully saying “you just need to shut up, consider it all joy, and be more forgiving.“
So the most recent problematic issue at Christ Church just hit the public record, “Christ Church deacon indicted for child porn.” This is the latest of a series of issues over the years involving the abuse of women and/or children. This particular church is not much different than any other, or our public schools, or our foster system for that matter. Once again, we live in a broken world full of broken people. Stuff happens. It’s ugly.
The problem being there is no accountability, and by accountability I mean “no caring.” There is no concern for the victims, no empathy for their suffering, no recognition that they even exist, only compassion about the embarrassment this man and his family might be suffering. Also, empathy around the potential legal implications he may now have to live with.
In fact, Wilson wrote a statement that says in part, “With regard to the other surrounding sins by which Alex disqualified himself, humiliated his family, and embarrassed his church, he has sought our forgiveness, and we have extended it. At the same time, there are terrible real world consequences for his family, as well as for him, and we regard this entire tragic episode as one more casualty in the unconscionable pornification of our culture.”
So once again we have a hapless casualty, an innocent victim of the pornification of our culture? The fact that real live children are the actual victims of child pornography, the fact that children have been commodified, exploited, and sexually abused, doesn’t even register. In fact, those victims don’t even exist. Out of sight, out of mind. We don’t care, because our loyalty, our priority is the suffering and restoration of this poor, sad, “casualty of the culture.”
I write of my thirst for justice sometimes, my desire for vengeance, and often people falsely assume that is somehow related to having the bad guys drawn and quartered or burnt at the stake, but that isn’t the secret desire of my heart at all. I just long for the invisible to be seen. I long for them to just exist. I want us to matter, I want our pain to be acknowledged. Just us, justice. Not sitting with the perp in court, not driving down to the jail to pick him up, not sending him off to treatment, not arranging a chaperone so he can go to church, but, just us. Justice.
I want the church at large to care about all these invisible victims of abuse, with the same enthusiasm and empathy we show around forgiving and restoring perpetrators. A sweet man once told me I should spit in one hand and wish in the other and just see which one fills up first. He wasn’t wrong.
That is what lurks at the heart of our cultural divide, a tone deaf church that just doesn’t care. It’s really not about abortion or skin color or wokeness, or whether we should believe all women. It’s about not even existing, not being seen, being rendered completely invisible. It’s really just about how all animals are equal except some are clearly more equal than others.
The thing is, if you genuinely want life to matter in this country, than the suffering of others has to matter, and it has to matter more than your hurt feelings or your status, or your alleged reputation.
So now if one those children producing the porn your deacon indulged in gets pregnant, let’s be sure to lecture them on the alleged sanctity of life. We can follow it all up with some passionate articles about the qualifications for male elders, while publicly referring to women on facebook and twitter as, “pushy broads, twinkies in tight tops, or waifs with manga eyes.”
Then maybe we can all laugh, have a beer, and lament the “unconscionable pornification of our culture.”
Doug said:
Seems to me when we are born we begin the gauntlet run to avoid being collateral damage for simply living life. Some of “us” don’t make it past the womb, while others survive the run having been successful in being unimpeded, and reaching a satisfying end.
Rather supports the idea that experiencing living life is as random as being born into it.
I suppose you might “insert God here” in all that. I’m apprehensive.
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insanitybytes22 said:
It is a sad state of affairs when we people who supposedly believe in God are apprehensive or hesitant to “insert God in all that.”
Without God, I’ve got no argument for children being made in the image of God which is the whole reason why sexual abuse, the theft of their mind, body and soul is so wrong. Without inserting God into the equation, we just have might makes right and it sucks to be you.
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Doug said:
Faith in something higher than ourselves makes us tolerate ourselves.
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insanitybytes22 said:
LOL! Probably true.
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jsneese62 said:
Not that I am saying we shouldn’t fight against these things because we should absolutely, but will it ever end? No, because if anything humans are only going to get worse. Yes racism still exists, but it is not what it once was and yes, we need to still stand up against it when it happens. As a white woman married to a black man I get called a racist a lot and I don’t appreciate it. I had to block my man’s stepmom because she said I needed to leave my man calling me a racist and evil. Why? Because we don’t follow BLM, but we do Candace Owens. I was accused of teaching him my evil ways as if he doesn’t have a mind of his own. I am so sick of all white people are racist my ancestors never held slaves ever and to my knowledge never treated any bad either. We actually have a smidge of African blood in our line. Many of my family are in mixed relationships and we like it that way.
Pornography is disgust and child porn is evil in every sense of the word. We need to fight this evil, but is it going away? No, it isn’t and it has been around since ancient times. The children break my heart and I so desperately want them all saved. This fallen world is falling faster and faster I doubt it can be stopped at this point. Finding all the pedophiles is as impossible as finding all the victims. They will face punishment though. I gave up on just justice for me decades ago, but would like to see it for others. For myself I no longer care and as much as many people hate this saying it truly is what it is. Even if it happened for me it would make no difference because it would not remove the scars or pain when I unwillingly get jerked into a painful memory.
Truth is that pain will not go away here on this earth. All that can be done is to stand up for those that are truly oppressed, and those that are used and abused it is either that or turn a blind eye which I cannot do.
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insanitybytes22 said:
You, like me, and so, so many others have completely given up on justice. I think that’s probably wise, based on lived experience and wisdom, but it still isn’t good, it’s not desirable. Many of us have also given up on the church, not on Jesus Himself, but on what passes as “the church” in this world. I think those two things are related, I think a whole lot of it has to do with the church not really being a place of justice and reconciliation, for all but a select few.
I’m sure I’m probably just spitting into the wind, but as long as I still got some wind and some spit, I’m going to be hollering about it from the rooftops. 🙂
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jsneese62 said:
Yes, we have gained lived experience and wisdom a wisdom so many do not have. My man grew up with a single mom that doted on and sheltered him from the harsher things in life. When he got older and started getting a real taste of what the world was really like it was kind of a culture shock for him. With my children I raised them to understand that the world is cruel and if you are not careful it will chew you up and spit you out. No, it is not good or desirable, but just the way life is it is hard and it is harsh.
I am one that has given up on the “church” not on Jesus and you are right what passes for the “church” in this world today has much to do with it, however from reading the Bible we knew this was going to happen. There is far more occult in “churches” today than there is God. Billy Crone is actually starting a new three part series on how churches are being infiltrated and destroy from within by the occult. If anyone is interested he can be found on YouTube under his name and has many different series on there.
I am like you probably spitting in the wind, but as long as I have wind and spit I will be on that rooftop with you.
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The Night Wind said:
Those are some excellent observations, I expanded on them a bit today;
https://nightwind777.blogspot.com/2022/05/white-orcs-and-baby-formula.html
Without a moral foundation, all that the Right can muster is: ‘Vote for us if you hate the Democrats’ Then we get the likes of Bush, Youngkin, McConnell and Bruce Jenner in power and wonder why nothing changes.
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insanitybytes22 said:
This was really well said. Click on the link to read it, ya’ll. 🙂
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