Somebody smart once said there are two ways to get rich. The first is to earn more and the second is to spend less.
Due to unfortunate circumstances like record breaking inflation, government incompetence/downright suicidal spending, and some major cultural upheavals, the first option is beyond the reach of so many people. This idea that people can just work harder, faster, stronger, and somehow escape the giant boulder crushing down on us is just cray-cray.
Very funny, I just looked at some numbers for my area and the basic cost of living happens to be 3 times our income. Very funny because the alleged cost of living here is now so high, I’m pretty sure only a select few come anywhere near it. Keep in mind this is “basic living.” Due to inflation and poor leadership, the vast majority of us don’t even reach UP TO the poverty line.
So how do you spend less? By requiring less. By reducing your needs. You fix stuff yourself instead of paying someone else to do it. You reuse what you have. You lower your expectations. You gain skills like learning how to garden, how to cook at home, and how to sew your own clothes. (And those things are a financial “art form.” All in good humor here, but you can spend a ton of money on gardening as a hobby. Don’t even get me started about the price of fabric these days. Just saying, there is way to do it that saves you a ton of money and there is a way to do it that costs you a fortune.)
Being “rich” is actually a subjective matter of opinion, meaning it has a huge emotional, spiritual, and psychological aspect to it. So in order to “be rich,” one really has to address one’s inner wounds and turmoil and often deal with unpleasant emotions like insecurity, envy, pride, and fear.
To complicate matters farther, we are constantly being brainwashed by cultural advertising.. Seriously, it is so not our fault, but it is our responsibility to address these things and to resist. Why are you buying an over priced cup of coffee that is artificially flavored and of such poor quality it requires tons of sugary substances just to make it palatable? Because you deserve it. Because you only live once. Because you work really hard and get nowhere. Because you are entitled to some compensation. Because this is how you build social connection.
(Let the record show I am a complete coffee snob and have spent a ton of money on fancy coffee, so much so that I am now a total coffee elitist. So I am not trying to shame anyone over coffee spending. It’s just an easy example of the emotional issues that lurk behind our spending and not just our spending, but our desire to spend. If you can’t afford that overpriced cup of low quality coffee, now you are likely to feel really deprived.)
Feeling deprived is a poverty mentality and a poverty mentality actually creates more poverty. So you need to infuse that rubbish with a ton of abundance thinking, with lots of gratitude. Peasantry need not involve any deprivation what so ever!
I’m fortunate to have come from dirt poor, dumpster diving childhood poverty. I do know what it is like to be hungry. I do know what it is like to not have shoes. So why is this a blessing? Because I didn’t have any choice when it came to addressing the emotional and psychological aspects of wealth…... or a lack thereof. So I can see these wounds in myself rather clearly and sometimes I can see them in others, too.
Something that I think we’ve really failed to teach our young people is that “being rich” is not just a simple matter of “do all the right things and get the carrot.” That lie is so hugely damaging and psychologically abusive. It’s right up there with, “you can have it all.” Or perhaps, “anyone can grow up to be president.” These lies we’ve told or failed to address are part of the reason why young people are burdened by so much student loan debt, unable to buy a house, and working in a dead end job that not only offers no carrot, it doesn’t even offer one a sense of purpose or meaning.
People tend to blame themselves for a lot of things that are beyond their control. Recently I talked to a young man who wants to get married and have a family, but he feels like he must first be able to provide all these material things he can never quite seem to attain. That’s one way to view it, but another is to ask, who told you you needed all these things? Stop “needing” all these things and they will no longer control you.
All in good humor here, but if you wait until you can “afford to have children” you will never have them. There is no such thing as “affordable children.” They are a priceless gift. There is no monetary value that goes with them. There is also no amount of money that will buy them safety, security, or well being. Those things simply can’t be bought.
I’ve been called a lot of things in my life like “cheap.” Miserly. A churl. I like “churl” the best because it means a “mean spirited, low born, peasant.” That makes me laugh because in another time and place we would have called that, “good stock.” Genuine survivors. The saying, “the peasants are revolting” meant they struck fear in those they were revolting against, not that they smelled revolting! Please stop making that mistake, people. “Revolting” means being powerful, challenging the system. Not sure when being a member of the peasantry became a shameful thing perceived as being half starved, depressed, and weak. In truth it was the upper classes who often dosed themselves with arsenic hoping to get a pretty complexion. Peasants have always been the foundational strength of one’s culture.
So yes, I am flat out advocating in favor of making peasantry cool again. This tends to upset people and cause some resistance. Here’s the deal however, you are going to be a peasant either way. You can approach it kicking and screaming, dragging along assorted mental health issues and blaming yourself, or you can make peasantry cool again.
alphaandomega21 said:
Be a pleasant peasant! Peasant came from the French ‘paysan’ really meaning ‘countryman’, (paysanne meaning ‘country woman’), i.e man (or woman) of the country. This implies a region in France rather than necessarily the whole of France.
‘Pays’ means ‘country’ in French and ‘an’ means ‘year’ so there is the sense of the country man who follows the year and its seasonal cycles.
San has its root in the meaning ‘health’ so there is the sense of the healthy man.
Anyway instead of MAGA we can have MPCA Make Peasantry Cool Again!
Or maybe stick with MAGA as in Make Agriculture Great Again…
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insanitybytes22 said:
Lol! I think America will be great again when we make her peasants great again, but one must tread lightly there least anyone mistake such notions for Marxism or something.😂 But yes, “peasant” as defined long ago was a countryman, but even better, a “free man” meaning not in servitude, not an indentured servant, not a slave.
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ColorStorm said:
You know that proverb ‘there is much food in the tillage of the poor?’
Richness comes in many disguises, and while the elite may sneer at the ragmuffins, there just may be some secret jealousy that they can never experience even tho the caviar and regalia are enjoyed forever.
So I like your reference to your upbringing and how this molds thought, attitude, perceptions of politics, media, science, and couple this with a sanctified mind…… you end up with a menu overflowing that tillage. So yeah, cool to be fools eh?
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thank you, Colorstorm. It takes a lot of fertilizer to grow good stuff but we do have the best Gardener. Makes all the difference in the world. 🙂
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Jack Curtis said:
If you have only lemons, make lemonade is generally good advice … unless you have a citrus allergy. And that may be genetic. Sometimes, it seems to come down to just shrug and do your best. In the end, we are all peasants, aren’t we?
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insanitybytes22 said:
LOL, I like the adage, “if life gives you lemons, freeze them and throw them back.” Makes me laugh.
But yes, I do like what you said, “in the end we are all peasants.”
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Tricia said:
My pastor frequently weaves the phrase “want less” in to his sermons, such as “looking for more peace and joy in your life? Want less…” These are true words and inspiring in the moment. Until I get home and inevitably find myself wanting more!
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insanitybytes22 said:
I love thar, Tricia! Good for your pastor, because that is so true.
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joyindestructible said:
Peasants feed, house, and clothe the world. The elite can’t be elite without us! And they might starve, shivering in the dark because they aren’t equipped to do the practical work of peasants. I admit that I miss being a ‘poor’ American who shops just for fun and has abundance in comparison to people around the world who know true poverty but my hope is that this hard times will refocus Americans and the greater Western world on what is really important. In any event, to survive what’s happening now and greater misery coming, we’ve got to start tightening our belts and keep pulling them tighter as we pay the piper for such out of control government spending.
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Texans Jack & Dodie said:
From one “mean spirited, low born, peasant” to another, BRAVO!
I’ve been wealthy. Now I am poor again. But not like childhood. I appreciate the lessons of my youth because 1) it helps with wanting less, 2) I am happier than I’ve ever been.
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