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Ha! I love this meme, it just cracks me up. That poor little critter has been listening to me and is now just shell shocked….
That’s so NOT God. You can’t shell shock God, you can’t scare Him, and you can’t catch Him off guard. You also can’t make Him love you more or less then He does at this very moment.
That’s a tricky one for some people to come into agreement with. We can be very egalitarian about God, very transactional, very dispensational. “If I’m good He loves me, if I’m bad He doesn’t,” as if we can somehow control God’s affections for us.
I don’t really care so much about the egalitarian/complementarian wars within Christian culture around marriage, but I sure do care when we are talking about our own relationship with the Lord! It’s really not an exchange, not egalitarian, not a give and take, not something we can earn or create in a power balance.
However, that therapy dog is much like people. That is often how we react. Many people have an incredibly ridiculous hard time listening to others without judgement, without trying to fix it, without trying to use pity to rob people of their power and to create emotional distance.
I’m not always very good at it either. I’m really bad at it with people who are very close to me. I’m also kind of pragmatic.
So if you have a headache, I really want to rush in and inform you that you should stop banging your head on the wall. Like, maybe you just don’t realize what’s causing it??!
It is excruciatingly difficult for me to say, Okay, so how can I just come alongside you, hold your hand, and let you experience this awful headache in all it’s glorious misery??
Tell me that God does not have a sense of humor! I had a vision at church last night, I was by a river bank and there was a basket with this adorable baby in it, and sure enough they were floating the baby down the river like Moses, and I was like, No, no, that’s too dangerous! Suddenly a much bigger basket appeared, and there were much bigger people being tossed into it with a mighty splash! I recognized every last one. It totally cracked me up, all these adults were falling out of the sky as if they had just been thrown into this basket that was now threatening to tip over. Then the current caught them and they went floating down the river……
I got the message loud and clear about letting go, about trusting that God’s got everybody on a journey and a bit like the Baby Moses, I often must just let that basket float down the river….
Heather Davis said:
Nice! And so true. I’m on the mend from being a fixer, too. It’s taken me forever to learn to just listen to my teenagers and not try to help them fix their problems. Apparently, they aren’t interested in benefiting from my obvious age and experience… go figure. Ha!
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insanitybytes22 said:
Ha! Right? There’s not a lot of appreciation for wisdom and experience these days. Teens have always been notorious for mastering that state of being. 🙂
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Heather Davis said:
I was once quite a master myself… my kids have apparently inherited my expertise. lol!
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mimispassion said:
Wow. This is an interesting train of thought really. Trying to just go alongside without always trying to fix definitely is difficult. But how do you tell when you’re supposed to help fix from when you just need to be supportive?
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insanitybytes22 said:
How to know when you can help fix it and when to just be supportive? I think that’s really the million dollar question! It’s often really hard to tell.
A couple of things I like from the Bible, Jesus once asked, “do you want to be healed?” Some people don’t! That’s tough for us to accept sometimes, but I know there have been times when even I was not ready to let go of whatever dysfunction I was clinging too. He also gave people something to do like, put some mud on your eyes and go dunk yourself in the river. A bit of a humorous example perhaps, but many of us can be full of excuses and resist the smallest change.
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mimispassion said:
Yeah, yeah. We definitely need to ask. You just brought to mind a bible plan I read today. It said we should find out from God what exactly He wants us to pray for the person. And that sometimes could mean peace instead of healing or courage instead of money or something.
Thanks a lot for sharing this. Helped me take a step back.
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authorstephanieparkermckean said:
Great blog, as usual. Great vision, too, and I love the therapy dog. You hit on all the cylinders.
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thanks, Stephanie.
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SLIMJIM said:
What a lesson
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