Note to self: Do not ever try to engage in a conversation with any 20 something red pill girls who call themselves a Titus 2 wife and insist on decorating their blogs with endless selfies of them selfies.
2. Avoid any bloggers called something like, Daintily Draped in Babylon, Slightly Psychotic and Tattooed, or Borderline-Me-Please.
3. Do not respond to any question such as, “It is so embarrassing when I am out with my husband and all these guys keep coming up to us and asking me out right in front of him. How do I handle this?”
4. In case you missed it the first time, avoid all conversations with Borderline-Me-Please. In fact, boldly flee as fast as you can. That one is hungry.
5. Beware the Proverbs 31 red pill gals. Those ones have an astounding ability to hiss and spit their virtue all over you. A llama would be envious of all that spitting.
6. Whenever someone posts the question, “Why do all the other woman hate me just because I’m so beautiful?” Just walk away IB, just walk away.
See, there's this thing called biology... 
ROTFL!
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Why do all the women hate me just because I’m beautiful?
You motivated me to re-post my selfie. Off I go…
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I am speechless
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Mike above has promised to post selfies of him selfie. That will give us something to talk about 🙂
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I saw that and am waiting with gleeful anticipation
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Note to myself:
The next time somebody asks why I prefer foreign women; hand them the URL to this post. lol
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LOL. One can hardly blame you, Eric. If I had not seen it myself I would not have believed it.
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hahaha….IB, those women your describing don’t exist. 😉
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I’ve learned to avoid those folks who say they are completely impartial, unbelievably intelligent & and can leap tall buildings in a single bound.
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Really? It doesn’t look like it. @@
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Apparently OKRickety self identifies as a red pill girl.
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lol. So where are the links to these selfie blogs. This needs some serious researching, or perhaps not 😉 😀 ❤
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LOL! We have found just the right man for the job….:)
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Maybe so …… or not ! lol 😀
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I have just received a comment on my blog that you have been upsetting a fellow blogger. Reading this post again I feel that this is a subtle attack on that person. I really do not understand why you should do such things. All our blogs are different and we should respect that even though we may disagree with what they have to say. The simplest thing is to just walk away and not return. I commented here in good faith thinking that you are having a bit of fun generally. I cannot condone your actions and therefore I must walk away from your blog, never to return. I am so sorry to read about what is going on in here and I do hope that you can find it in your heart to apologise to that person and make friends. I wish you well in the future. Goodbye. Ralph.
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This post is an attempt to have a bit of fun with something that is really quite ugly and to fight back as gently as I can. There are three women I know of who enjoy contacting other bloggers and “warning them about me.”
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You are very welcome to reply to Stephanie’s comment in my latest post. There it will be neutral ground and hopefully you both can come to an understanding and leave as friends.
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Ha! I’m so handsome I can’t look in the mirror because I will dazzle myselfie. Bwahahaha! Talk about being attached to the physical world – Whew!
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Hi! I’ve nominated your blog for ‘A Lovely Blog Award’. Here are the details – https://thevindicatedaxiom.wordpress.com/2016/06/04/one-lovely-blog-award/
Keep up your lovely writing! 🙂
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Ralph,
I instantly knew the woman you are referring to at your blog. She makes it a habit to go around to male blogs playing the poor me victim card, manipulating men into only believing her story…that she was “attacked” and is so good at what she does that the men never even stop to consider if there might be TWO sides to every story. This woman on your blog is not blameless herself. She instigates a good deal, but she gets away with it by talking sweetly and positing a demure photo and most men are then blinded. You can’t defend yourself against crazy women as they always see your defense as an attack and you see it that way as well. Maybe this post isn’t the best example of defending, but I have seen IB and others speak up and defend themselves against the things “this woman” on your blog says, but our quickly dismissed. Bullies always win because their victims are not believed.
Have you told this woman on your blog that she too should “just walk away”? Maybe she should have before she said this to IB
“LOL IB… you are so mentally ill… you crave all this drama with these men here, and any woman that comments here. And again, its just embarrassing to see how you’re behaving – I bet your regular Christian commenters have no idea what you’re doing over here. And as far as being a “pretty princess,” well at least I’m not some old, menopausal, ugly woman harassing men all day long, and turning into a raging lunatic at night. LOL… I’ll take the pretty princess insult any day”
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Yes, thank you. I get annoyed with the games, with the running about and warning other bloggers about the evils of IB, often with complete falsehoods. I do not like gossip, backstabbing, and silly games that should have been left back in middle school.
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IB, In my experience, you don’t know a complete falsehood, well, at least you won’t admit it, when presented with the facts of your own self-made falsehood.
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Ralph,
You are very naive about how women operate. You haven’t seen the full picture…there have been feuds going on for years, yet you think you can just insert yourself and make friends of women. You haven’t seen how your dear Mrs. Stephanie, yes the married woman you send hugs and kisses to, treats other women in other parts of the web. Its typical of feminized men to get involved in female drama, white knighting for one or both parties. Truth is if any man is to get involved it should be their husband rather than a stranger man online to defend them.
You say you don’t know “how this all started” need I remind you again of the words of Mrs. Stephanie for IB:
“LOL IB… you are so mentally ill… you crave all this drama with these men here, and any woman that comments here. And again, its just embarrassing to see how you’re behaving – I bet your regular Christian commenters have no idea what you’re doing over here. And as far as being a “pretty princess,” well at least I’m not some old, menopausal, ugly woman harassing men all day long, and turning into a raging lunatic at night. LOL… I’ll take the pretty princess insult any day”
That is how it started. If you are going to tell IB to apologize, it is only fair that you also tell Mrs. Stephanie.
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Oh for goodness sake! First off, this post was not about Dragonfly at all, as a matter of fact, I had forgotten all about her. If this post were a personal attack designed to target Dragonfly, I would have named Dragonfly as I have on previous occasions. Second of all, the fact that Dragonfly refuses to address me at all, but instead runs to Ralph who she doesn’t even know, to bear false tales about how victimized she is, is really pathetic. And now I see she is attempting to bring another blogger into it. Too much melodrama and stupidity for me. But lastly, let’s just let Ralph enjoy the appeals for his attention and his desired white knightery. I think it is all just nuttery, but hey, Ralph has a good heart and good intentions, and likely no idea what the heck is even going on. 🙂
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“Slightly Psychotic and Tattooed,”
That was mighty misleading then…I know of no other tattoo blogger. Why name some and not others then? You don’t have to answer I am just confused now.
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I didn’t name anybody, I created caricatures of those women I’ve encountered on the internet who have been exceedingly unkind to me. It was a compilation of a dozen or so red pill girls I’ve encountered. Apparently I struck a nerve somewhere, because Dragonfly seems to believe I wrote this post just for her. Well, what can I say, I guess if the shoe fits people are free to wear it. I would care about their feelings, but apparently I am the worst sinner to walk the face of the planet, and also ugly, stupid, old, fat, bipolar, delusional, etc so my interest in soothing the hurt little girl-bully feelings seems to be eluding me at the moment.
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The trajectory for a “red-pill woman” seems to be the woman goes looking for help understanding why her marriage causes her so much pain (usually her husband is emotionally unavailable) and stumbles upon the manosphere, which explains everything to her in a way that helps her be what all women need to be: “special” because, as it turns out, she’s not actually married to a husband incapable of efficacious love, she’s married to an “alpha”, which makes her an alpha female. This explains everything and puts her marriage in a new, rosy light and she can all of a sudden “see” that all her happily married friends are actually living ugly lives with their beta chumps. This realization puts her a cut above other women and makes it possible for her to soothe the pain of her marriage by gathering lonely, desperate men to affirm and support her, something she’s not getting at home. The shocking immodesty of these women (the subjects they consider appropriate for mixed-company conversation) should be an instant tell that they are not healthy or happy. Women who are getting what they need emotionally and physically from their husbands don’t go around the internet announcing the details. It’s interesting that you never see happily married older women trolling around these sites looking for affirmation from the men. It’s only young women who are irritable and antsy and need a constant admiration/I’m wanted fix. It’s educational to see what happens if one of the admired men calls one of these women out. It’s not quite as bad as if a woman calls her out, but it’s fireworks nonetheless because her constructed reality requires her to submit to all the men, to treat them as oracles, which means all these men will admire and want her because she gets it. Any criticism threatens to topple the delusion. So the red-pill women orbit men like Rollo and the red-pill wounded orbit both the PUAs and the red-pill women. What kind of man would be supportive of his woman slavering over a shell of a man like Rollo? How could a man even think highly of his woman if she’s attracted to that?
It has always puzzled me that self-styled Proverbs 31 women and Titus 2 women are so often incredibly hateful to other women, particularly to older women, when it’s only an older woman who can even be either of those things. There is no such thing as a young Proverbs 31/Titus woman. It’s only after a woman is older that she can see why such a thing is impossible.
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This was really well said. I have been trying to understand where all that rage against women comes from, especially such resentment towards older women. That is kind of sad because that is where all our wisdom resides, all our support and encouragement, in our sisters, mothers, grandmas, the elder women of our communities. The bible itself sets up the Titus 2 dynamic in recognition of this. If I had not had the older gals in my life, I would be truly lost.
The red pills seem to teach that we hate younger women, that we are resentful of them. I don’t feel that way at all, I would not trade places for all the world. Age is a real privilege, as is some wisdom and experience. Those younger women need support and nurturing, but they cut themselves off and turn to these broken men instead.
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I think the rage toward other women is directly related to the PUA/manosphere contention (and our modern obsession with sex) that the only use for a woman is sexual, so any woman who doesn’t present as both “hot” and sexually ravenous is decidedly not part of the group. Couple that with their magical thinking about what a wife can/should be and do and you have a recipe for young women at least presenting as that wife (in the hope that this is the magic that will make her husband notice because all these men told her so.) This is why they reveal deeply private matters, betraying their husbands by discussing what is his with other men. They are presenting their credentials as hot, sexually ravenous wives. Women who don’t reveal these details are obviously “withholding.” Any man who finds this behavior immodest and distasteful must have an ugly, fat, withholding wife. It’s a perfectly toxic system (as all cult systems are until they implode) of each side giving the other what they want instead of what they need.
The hatred toward older women is rooted in, first, the idea that an older woman has to be perfect before she can say anything; second, that so many older women are clearly foolish in that they haven’t embraced and loved wisdom; and, third, that older women can’t be sexually attractive and are thus useless. The belief among these women that the only value of females is in being sexually wanted is very strong. It’s also a strong belief that any woman who doesn’t embrace these ideas must be ugly and while these young woman acknowledge that they will, of course, age, they believe because they love what is good (being sexually attractive) that they’ll be old and sexy.
Having grown up in a cult, I understand how these systems work, but it can be difficult to explain, although I suspect you understand given what you’ve mentioned about your childhood. Anybody who disagrees with the doctrine or with the perceived leaders is “Satanic” and is immediately demonized and put out unless, of course, they back down and grovel sufficiently. No dissension is allowed because it threatens the integrity of the group, which leads to another feature: The constant in-fighting for the top position, to be the beloved of the oracle, by “getting it” more than anybody else. That is how these systems are maintained – disagreement can’t be tolerated because it threatens the structure, thus threatening the power of the leaders. This is why you are hated – you don’t submit to the leaders, you disagree with their doctrine, and you won’t grovel. The way these women go around to blogs where you might be known to “warn” them about you is absolutely classic for cults.
I’m 100% with you about loving being older. You don’t understand how difficult and crazy-making being young is until you’ve survived past it. When I see young women touting their wisdom and remember how wise I thought I was I cringe and realize that I should probably shut up now and listen to the 80-year-old ladies. ;-D
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Thank you, I appreciate your words and your wisdom about these things.
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“. The shocking immodesty of these women (the subjects they consider appropriate for mixed-company conversation) should be an instant tell that they are not healthy or happy”
Like removing your IUD by yourself! TMI!! Lol. Could have made a great post with instructional video for other young christian wives on birth control.. Suprised that was not done. Seriously, the lack of discretion is mind blowing.
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I appreciate the mention of modesty, because that contradiction has been really messing with my head. There is such a thing as modesty of spirit, as respect for human dignity including your own, that really has nothing to do with clothing or the way one dresses. So some of these women are lambasting the alleged too short skirts of “other people,” while having no boundaries or respect for human dignity themselves. That is an incredibly convoluted and shaming message to be teaching other girls.
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Modesty of spirit leads to modesty of dress. It is possible to have modest dress with an immodest spirit, but not possible to have a modest spirit and immodest dress. The basis of modesty is humility; that is why you generally won’t see modesty of spirit in red-pill women.
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Hmnn …Brings up grandfather advice (after laughter, of course):
Do not mess with the left side of the bell curve. (Which might be a translation of your note to self …)
De gusibus, non est disputandum.
De minimis, non curat lex.
And say to them: “If you can’t or won’t think, speak as seldom as possible and never write!
Like most advice, none of this has any actual utility, but may on occasion help towards feeling better for a bit.
Clever column but are ALL those pills red?
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