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No, no I will not. Don’t tell me what kind of day to have, as the saying goes. More importantly, do not drone out the latest talking point like an automatron. If you’re going to do that, please just go, “baa-baa” like a sheep! At least that would get my attention, make me laugh, and feel refreshingly honest for a change.
You have no idea how much this phrase annoys me, nails on a chalkboard, I tell ya. It is much like, “the new normal” or “stay safe.” It is suddenly the mantra of bored retail clerks everywhere. It is not the same as a casual, “have a good day.” That is something quite different. It could be 2 AM, you could have just wrecked your car, and someone will automatically say, “have a nice rest of your day!”
No. Totally inappropriate. Way out of context.
I have a gift, a radar that will spot these meaningless mass consumption phrases from 75 miles away, whether I want to or not. “Have a nice rest of your day,” is clearly what young people have been recently taught to say, and it does not flow smoothly off the tongue! It is awkward and unnatural, so they often try to say it as quickly as possible. There is also visible relief once it has been faithfully uttered. I actually find myself comforting them after it is spoken and just hanging in the air. Look at you! You spit that horrid, awkward phrase out successfully! I am so proud of you. Good job.
Does anyone know when this even became a thing? I checked with the Google and apparently I am not the only one having a fit because it turned up 12,090,000,000 results. Ha! That actually surprised me. I am also pleased to find thousands of other people objecting strongly, from all over the world. There are some great debates about whether or not it is even proper grammar. Some people feel as if it is intimidating, like a subversive threat. It’s a bit like saying “have a nice life,” similar to how one might say, “well bless your heart.”
Have a nice rest of your day, it’s the last one you’re going to get……
Someone suggested it may be a phrase being taught in business, as if to say, your experience waiting in line for some lousy service is going to be quite miserable, but now you get to leave and enjoy the rest of your day! See, we’re just pointing you to something more hopeful, like when you no longer have to try to do business with us.
There is something really redundant about it, too. Like, of course you are speaking about the “rest” of one’s day. That is already implied or known. You can’t wish someone a pleasant past. You don’t need to make it clear that you mean some point in the future. I assume time is still moving in one direction? One never knows these days exactly what the heck is going on.
Not long ago someone quipped, enjoy the rest of your stay, to some people actually waiting to check in! A bit funny, my head shot up and it took everything I had not to run over there and point out that they couldn’t possibly do that on account of the fact that their stay has not even officially begun yet. Look, you people are just putting the cart before the horse now! Also, they were trying quite desperately to get their stay started and “you” seem to have lost their reservation. If the “rest of their stay” is going to involve sleeping in their car, it might be better to just avoid mentioning it all together.
Some people don’t get it at all. They try to claim that people have always said that and I am making a mountain out of a molehill. Yes, well, “The past was alterable. The past never had been altered. Oceania was at war with Eastasia. Oceania had always been at war with Eastasia.” Trust me, the past is totally alterable.
You wouldn’t believe how much damage a couple of moles can do. Beware the tiny molehills.
Nice. Yep, I mean it! Ha, so unlike a conversation with a machine right? I’m pretty sure I’ve never said ‘have a nice day…..’ ever. Just doesn’t seem natural as you say. Then there’s the addition so as to REALLY emphasize it. Yucksville to be sure.
True story. Years ago I stopped for lunch in a well known chain, went inside, ordered, and the lady said ‘what’s the name on the order?’ Consider what she asked: what’s the name on the order?
Hmmm. I paused, thought, looked at her and said ‘Sylvester.’ Now my name is not Syl….. had she asked what MY name was I would happily have said Jack — so I sat down waited until I heard ‘Sylvester.’ I secretly laughed— but waited. ‘ Sylvester!’ One more time as I was enjoyed the lack of public relations so common where we cease to be human: ‘SYLVESTER!!’ Yep, coming. Man did I enjoy that as the crowd looked around .
Goes to what u are saying. Humans acting like thoughtless machines spitting out words like coupons- ‘have a whatever…’. Ha, no Tkx I have other plans.
And to any Christian who said I added way too much drama —- no. She didn’t know me from Adam, and could have said my name was Tony the Tiger- ‘what’s THE name on the order?’ said I had 4 aces and any answer was good.
NICE post x2 msb. 🙂
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When I worked for a chain that asked for names people thought they were really clever by giving us names to shout like “Trump” or “Jesus Loves You, your order is ready”. And it’s astonishing how many women give their husband’s name. So I can understand being generic with the language. People are incredibly annoying to serve, but sometimes you have to let them have their little whims.
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True Jill, but far too often people can’t even look you in the eye when saying ‘Tkx’ or ‘enjoy your day,’ etc.
Not a sweeping observation, of course many ( no doubt like yourself) are genuine in their regards, but retail can make you numb if u are not careful.
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I absolutely don’t do eye contact with anyone, and I had zero regards for customers when I did retail. It was not good for my soul. Otoh, I don’t think people should expect eye contact. That’s really, really hard for some people. I have a much better attitude now, but I still absolutely can’t do eye contact.
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A bit funny Jill, I smile a lot and try to make eye contact. This guy once teased and said that looking you right in the eye and showing their teeth is what animals do right before they attack. Made me laugh, but I think there is some truth there. On the other hand, some of us are just friendly, over grown puppies. 🙂
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Ha! We really have dehumanized people to the point of orders actually having names, rather than the customers themselves. I like coffee stands, writing on cups. Some people are creative and others are just living in their own world. I am actually friends with Stebe. He is a fellow customer who once tried to say, “it’s Steve with a V” and somehow wound up with Stebe. Some of us thought that was hilarious and it kind of suits him, so it has become his new avatar.
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You are correct, this is a new phrase for me, too. The other really common refrain these days during conversations with customer service is “perfect!” Like, I’m pretty sure it came from some influencer who needs to be shunned from polite society.
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Oh, yes, I really dislike “perfect!” That’s often a sales pitch, like time to reel them in.
Something I tend to do that is probably annoying, is heap on the praise like a mom would. At the gas pump this morning I told an elderly man, “Good job! You did that so well,” like I was talking to a small child or something. Well shoot, using debit credit and automated systems really is hard and I think we should all get a sticker when it works.
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Nice little bit of humorous banter, Gabrielle. I don’t think this ever struck me until the phrase became “Be safe out there.” That started to drive me crazy, because, well, you know, Covid. I wanted to respond,
“Really? How do I do that, exactly? Do I ever do something intentionally to not be safe? And what do I want to be not safe from? Oh, yeah, Covid. Just leave me alone. Don’t tell me how to be safe, or how to live my life. I am not afraid of something happening to me! You know, I have Jesus! He told me I could make it through as long as He had something for me to do. After that, what am I trying to avoid? Death? Don’t you know “To live is Christ, and to die is gain? How about ‘have lots of gain out there!”
But, I would usually just smile and say, “Okay?”
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LOL! Oh yes, Randy, that “stay safe” thing got really annoying. I’m civilized, for the most part I just smile and say, “thank you.” A few times however, I’ve said, “No, live dangerously!”
This pastor used to say, “you are the most dangerous thing in the room,” rather comical because he was often talking to those of us who don’t feel all that powerful. But he was right, with Jesus at our side, with His authority behind us and before us, what exactly is there to fear? We Jesus followers don’t take the temperature around us, we set the entire thermostat!
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As Annie said (Seeking Divine Perspective) we are the coffee beans in the boiling water.
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So why did you trash this funny rant?
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Hmm, no trashing here that I can see? All in good fun Partnering, but trashing doesn’t bother me anyway. I have a Twitter account! 🙂
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got notification via e mail; clicked on title and got:
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What you were looking for doesn’t exist or isn’t here anymore. We are sorry 😦
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Ahh! Sorry about that. My internet was cutting out last night and only half the post would publish. I just gave up, trashed it, and set it for this morning. 😊
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That explains why I got the same message–that your post no longer existed when you first published it. I decided to look again today and it was finally there… 🙂
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When I’m feeling lazy, I just say, “Have a good one” and let the other person fill in the blank.
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Ha! Me too! And reading the comment below it seems as if Citizen Tom wrote a post a few years back just for all of us who run about saying, “have a good one.” 🙂
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I once wrote a post on a topic very much like the topic of your post. Don’t know if you ever saw it. So here you go => https://citizentom.com/2018/05/14/only-halfway-serious/
I think greetings like the one you mentioned provide proof positive that we don’t pay enough attention to use more than 2 % of our brains.
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Ha! Well done, Tom. 🙂
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This is what I wrote last year:
“BE SAFE OUT THERE”
I’m not crazy about this new “goodbye “. It seemed to emerge into the vocabulary in the early days of Covid, when people began to fearfully come out of their houses to venture into this new and dangerous world.
Pete Buttigieg, our esteemed transportation czar, spoke recently about his goal for transportation in the U.S.; no deaths. Admirable goal, right?
Is it, though?
Since when did we begin to measure our lives upon the idea of being safe?
Staying safe seems to mean hiding away from anything that might harm you.
Viruses we can’t see.
Or block with cloth masks.
Accidents on the roads.
Accidents in the air.
Accidents with ladders.
Attacks of red wasps.
Knife cuts.
Twisted ankles.
Broken bones….
Make your own list.
The problem with being safe is living in fear of pain.
Or fear of anything.
Life comes at you from all sides, in all ways, and it comes at you quickly.
You don’t usually see it coming.
Sometimes it will knock you down, take away your happiness, cause grief, sorrow, and pain.
Sometimes, it will force you to look beyond yourself to find some kind of meaning, some sort of answer to the question, “Why do these things happen to me?”
Sometimes, your eyes can be opened to a world of challenge and hope, and in the process of walking through this scary, scary world, being guided by the One who designed your inmost parts and made plans for your future, for your purpose, you will find joy.
Sorry, Pete, I’m not interested in your type of safe life.
I will not be afraid.
” BE BRAVE OUT THERE”
“Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you;
I will help you;
I will hold on to you with My righteous right hand.”
Isaiah 41:10
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Amen! Those are wise words from someone who knows of what he speaks. 🙂
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