I am exceedingly, abundantly, blessed, and fully content in all things. Like the Apostle Paul says, “I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.”
Here’s something I want people to understand, one must cultivate and work the field in order to achieve this state of well being that we call, “being blessed.” We need to receive it, bring it in to ourselves. One must tap into the Lord’s abundance rather than indulging in the world’s scarcity. We actually do “indulge” ourselves in pity parties, in feeling lack, envy, abandonment, despair, deprivation. It’s a choice, an indulgence. One problem with indulging in the world’s scarcity and feeling deprived, oppressed, depressed, is that it’s much like eating potato chips. You often can’t just have one.
The first step to changing all that is practicing constant gratitude or as the song goes, “count your blessings one by one.” Kind of corny I know, but it’s really true.
Prepping is huge right now, being ready for disaster, surviving. The number one key to survival is not having enough enough water, rice and beans, or ammo, but actually your attitude of gratitude. If one finds themselves in a tough situation survey your resources and take an inventory of what you have. Another way to say that is, count your blessings one by one. Take note of what you do have, not what you wish you had.
Recently I watched this amusing video, guy trying to warm his tent with tea lights and clay pots. What made it comical was that in the background you could see this fire pit and huge stack of dry wood. Like dude, it’s freezing in there, put the candles down, step out of your tent, and go build a roaring fire!
Now he was just having an adventure, conducting an experiment, and making a video, so we shall cut him some slack. I just thought that video was a good analogy for our own human behavior, how when we don’t count our blessings we become blind to our resources, we can’t even see what we do have, and so we sit there shivering in the cold trying to bring up the temp in a tent that has no insulation, using a tragically small candle.
My circumstances are delightful at the moment, I am in relatively good health, I have a charming family, and I am truly blessed, but there is a great deal of misery all around me, and one of the hardest things for me to accept is that the vast majority of it is actually self inflicted misery. I can’t cure what ails you, I can’t fix it.
Jesus sure can, but only if people are willing to reach for Him.
My sister is currently in jail, and praise the Lord for that blessing, because we’ve just had a cold snap and it’s really dangerous to be a homeless addict out in the weather. The neighbors on both sides of me, relatively young men who have had everything handed to them, are currently showing signs of what looks like congestive heart failure likely caused by meth and heroin use. It’s heartbreaking to bear witness to and to be powerless to do anything about it. Many people I know are grieving right now, dealing with death and loss, a great deal of it caused by addiction and assorted pharmaceuticals. It really is grievous and sad.
Something else I’ve learned, grief can also be a form of worship, an expression of gratitude. We don’t feel sad when we lose things (or people) who had no value to us. I grieve my sister’s situation because I know the worth and value of a sibling relationship, the joy God wrote right into sisterhood that has now been stolen from us. I grieve those young men on my street currently destroying themselves because I know they have such potential, such genuine worth and value, and that life can be really beautiful.
Or not. A great deal of that is actually our choice, the decision to reach out and seize a bit of, “life and life abundant” really rests with us.
I snagged this little cartoon off of Twitter because I found it amusing and true, joyous even, because it really captures the meaning of Christmas. It seems a little bratty, a little pompous, but doggone it’s the truth. To be a Christian means to be forgiven, accepted, acquitted, exonerated. It’s quite scandalous or as one of my favorite pastors use to say, just audacious.
Great word! My grandfather taught me that Count Your Blessing song
g when I was about 7 years old. SWEET! That simple song was foundational to my faith and life of joy. Reminds me of Disney’s movie Pollyana and the glad passages in the Bible that transformed a whole town.
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Ahh, way to go Grandpa! π
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Yep! β€οΈ
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I enjoyed your post, and I just have an observation I hope you will find helpful.
Calvin and Hobbes is a favorite of mine and many others because Calvin reminds us of ourselves. That was me before I repented.
Here Calvin expresses joy because he has not been caught and punished. That is why it seems a little bratty, a little pompous, and entirely childish. Calvin does not and cannot in humility express gratitude because God has forgiven him. He is still unconverted, but he is beginning to get the idea of what it means to be forgiven. Therein lies the humor. We remember ourselves being just like him, foolishly trying to convince ourselves that we were getting away with something. But we were getting away with anything. We were just accumulating more debt that Jesus would have to repay for our sake.
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Forgot the “not” again. “But we were not getting away with anything.”
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Kind of fascinating Tom, but a lot of people who think they are free, are actually just compulsively punishing themselves and calling it freedom. There is all this self loathing, dysfunction, and torment going on. What punishment can you possibly inflict on someone who has already lost everything, destroyed their body, and is now sleeping on the street? The threat or fear of punishment doesn’t produce change, partly because it’s already our default state. So what many people really need to know is that they can step out of that punishment paradigm completely, that another way, a better way exists.
As Christians too, we really need to embrace and accept the notion that we actually are getting away with something. We have been (unfairly perhaps?) acquitted. That’s what enables us to extend some similar grace to others. In the worldly system we want to see people get what’s coming to them, what they deserve.
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Guilt is a big problem, and it does lead to self-destructive behavior. One the questions that nonChristians have no answer for is this question: what do you do with your guilt?
God’s forgiveness through Jesus’ death and resurrection is the solution, but it is a gift we must accept in repentance. Our pride abhors repentance.
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I also feel sad for the wasted
potential caused by addiction. By trying to escape from reality these young minds are lost in the moment. How do we help them? I wish I knew.
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I think to help solve the addiction issue, we really need a community wide response that basically amounts to saying, “no.” No, you can’t destroy yourself right in front of us. This is unacceptable. Then we mandate drug treatment or jail. In areas like mine where that approach has fallen out of favor and is not part of the political will, we’ve just created more misery and made the problem even bigger.
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On my town the jails are so full that an overnight stay is about all they can handle.
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We need more compassion in this world, and it’s okay to be sad at Christmas. Not everyone is jumping for joy during the holidays. Here’s a short post I just read this morning that was in my reader here on WordPress: https://blueskiesandgreenpastures.com/2022/12/21/its-okay-to-be-sad-at-christmas/
Life is complicated for everyone at some point… and it goes deeper then just pointing fingers. I am glad that you’ve had a wonderful Christmas so I don’t mean to take away anything from your post… π I enjoy reading what you write.
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Yes, amen! I enjoy reading Blue Skies over there, she’s always got some good stuff.
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I hope you had a wonderful Christmas. Please, forgive my delay in responding to your kind wishes. Am recuperating from vertigo, so have been offline.
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Oh dear, sorry about the vertigo. I hope you are feeling better soon and on the mend.
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Cogito, ergo sum; Deo gratias ..?
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Yep, works for me! π
Something else I think is really neat, Descartes actually began that phrase with, “I doubt, therefore I am.” In the Western world at least, we are a bit obsessed about ego, intellect, identity, and our ability to think. It’s generally devoid of any intellectual humility or really humility of any kind. If nothing else, “doubt” at least reminds us we have a need, we haven’t got it all figured out on our own.
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Perhaps there is some available knowledge that we prefer not to know ..?
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Thanks sharing your idea We need to be safe and live the moment. Let’s follow our blogs. Thanks Anita
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So right, so true, so amazing. or, audacious! Spoken like one who knows her sin problem has been atoned for and will never be brought up by our Savior as we hold hands and hop along with him.
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Amen, Oneta! This is the essence of the good news and it does indeed put an extra skip in our step. π
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I am following your site..let’s follow each other.
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Love this: “To be a Christian means to be forgiven, accepted, acquitted, exonerated.”
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Reblogged this on clydeherrin.
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Praying for your sisters; and the young men in the neighborhood
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Thank you, Slim. Prayers are much appreciated.
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Blessings to you sister
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