Woot! Praise the Lord! I’ve always known that God has boundaries, but recently that’s been reaffirmed, validated some more, and so I just feel like celebrating Him, celebrating the wonders of His design and how good it all is.
So “boundaries” is kind of a generic word with many layers of definition, some tangible and some more emotional and spiritual. They can be physical like a fence line, or they can be more like some structure that brings order to my emotional chaos. I have always loved people who have lots of good boundaries. They are safe, you can relax around them, and they are taking care of themselves so you don’t have to.
I think I tend to value people with strong boundaries so much because I am an over functioner often surrounded by a lot of dysfunction, so if you are going down the highway with an unsecured load dumping garbage out the back of your truck, I’m probably the one behind you trying to bob and weave around all the piles you’re leaving in the road.
There’s a definition of “meek” that I really like, meekness is strength restrained. Sometimes we get that all mixed up and equate “meek” with “weak.” Meekness is patient restraint, long suffering, self control, power in check. Meek people are awesome because they are really strong, and yet they don’t go tearing through the place like a bull in a china shop. I think we can say that God is meek. He has no limits, He can do whatever He wants, He is all powerful, but He is also very gentle with us. Matthew says, “…for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
The Lord is not afraid of your mess. You can’t intimidate Him, He’s not scared of you, and you don’t have to walk on eggshells and tip toe around His feelings. He is not easily offended, He has already seen it all, and so you are not going to shock Him, surprise Him, or catch Him off guard.
Believe it or not, I can be very bold sometimes, like a bull in china shop. Whenever I start to get scared about something out in the world, the Lord likes to whisper to me, Uh yeah, remember that time you marched up to the Creator of the universe Himself and promptly informed Him He was wrong about everything? You can’t fool me, you aren’t scared of anything. True story, I have actually done that a few times.
I highly recommend going to God with your troubles long before you are half hysterical, armed for bear, and ready to take out a small country, but either way, it’s all good, because God has boundaries. He is safe to turn to in times of trouble. He can protect Himself and He can protect you. He can handle whatever you throw at Him. You do have to stop shrieking and soften your heart in order to hear Him respond, but you are simply not powerful enough to rattle His cage in that manner.
I am laughing here, but some of my favorite words really are found in Romans 3, “Certainly not! Indeed, let God be true but every man a liar. As it is written: βThat You may be justified in Your words, And may overcome when You are judged.β
Over the years I’ve calmed down a lot, I’ve built trust with the Lord, I’ve gotten to know His nature better and so I am far more reverent today, far more affectionate and filled with adoration, but I have gone boldly before the throne of grace and said things like, you know this “you reap what you sow” thing? I ain’t buying it. And the Lord has simply said, Okay beloved, let me help with that.
Michael Wilson said:
Well said.
w00t!
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Chado said:
No way.
He is the god of borderless Kumbayah.
He is god of Lennon’s “Imagine”.
He wants us to live in one world of unity and progressive global politics.
Borders and limits are not of God and downright satanic.
Nations are NOT ordained by God.
Nationalism is ungodly.
You heretic.
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insanitybytes22 said:
LOL! Love your poetry. A bit funny, but one can’t even be a proper heretic, without borrowing from God’s boundaries. π
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Chado said:
BORDERS/LANGUAGE/CULTURE β»
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insanitybytes22 said:
Absolutely! We can shrink it all down to “families, tribes, communities.” It’s no accident that there has been a spiritual war attacking those very things, trying to dismantle the strength of our family units, trying to impose mandatory multi culturalism on us, trying to bring us all under a one-world order. Jesus Himself is called the Lion of the tribe of Judah, validating and affirming the significance of those boundaries that enable us to have more freedom. God also confused the languages, scattered us, not to be mean, to help us thrive in greater diversity.
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Mel Wild said:
Amen, IB. Well said. This is another irony. Healthy boundaries actually give us more freedom! It’s what makes us a powerful person instead of a powerless one.
One of my favorites on boundaries is Dr. Henry Cloud. Here’s one quote from him:
βBoundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me. A boundary shows me where i end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership. Knowing what I am to own and take responsibility for gives me freedom. Taking responsibility for my life opens up many different options. Boundaries help us keep the good in and the bad out. Setting boundaries inevitably involves taking responsibility for your choices. You are the one who makes them. You are the one who must live with their consequences. And you are the one who may be keeping yourself from making the choices you could be happy with. We must own our own thoughts and clarify distorted thinking.β
β Henry Cloud, Boundaries: “When to Say Yes, How to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life”
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insanitybytes22 said:
Yes! Boundaries enable us to have greater freedom! Long ago we actually fenced in our backyard so our chickens could roam free during the day. Before we had the back fence they had to stay in their coop so they wouldn’t get run over or eaten by coyotes. So that boundary improved the quality of our chicken’s lives and gave them more freedom.
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MJThompson said:
Yeah Mel, great quote! Imagine being adrift at sea in a ship with no boundaries…. Blind leading the blind, ‘progressives’ see boundaries as cruel restrictions imposed by taboo ‘conservatives’.
Article 4, Sec. 4 of The United States Constitution makes it clear the Federal government must ensure the maintenance of our borders to stop such an incursion of foreigners into the country.
“The United States shall guarantee to every State in this Union a Republican Form of Government, and shall protect each of them against invasion; and on Application of the Legislature, or of the Executive (when the Legislature cannot be convened) against domestic Violence.”
The ‘domestic violence’ is from FOREIGN ‘invasion’ – NOT feigned ‘insurrection’ from within.
Sadly, only when the recent protests reached the borders of congress, did borders become important to the ‘woke’ politicians.
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Mel Wild said:
Exactly. Itβs okay to burn down businesses and cities but heaven forbid if it reaches the Capitol. Maybe if we shut down Congrss without pay they would work harder on opening up the economy sooner
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Pastor Randy said:
Great insights! And I’m surprised I haven’t seen you marching right up to God’s throne on my way back down!
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insanitybytes22 said:
LOL! We must be like two ships that pass in the night, Pastor Randy. π
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seekingdivineperspective said:
I don’t know if I have mentioned this to you, but you sometimes remind me of the book “Angry Letters to God.” I got a lot of laughs and “Amens” out of that snarky book. (I just tried to look it up to get the author’s name … No luck. π₯ Maybe out if print?)
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insanitybytes22 said:
Oh, interesting! I vaguely recall such a book but I never read it. I call that arguing with God, some people call it “wrestling,” but what it really all amounts to is, “contending for the faith.” π
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seekingdivineperspective said:
Found it! I remembered the author’s name – Susan Isaacs. The reason I wasn’t finding it was the title is “Angry CONVERSATIONS with God.” And it seems to be still in print … FYI.
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insanitybytes22 said:
Awesome! I might check it out! Sounds like something I’d enjoy. π
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King said:
Glory to god! I absolutely love him and the boundaries he set in front of us. Without those our greatest purpose will never flourish
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insanitybytes22 said:
Yayyy! God is good. π
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SLIMJIM said:
Thanks for your comment, which I heartily say Amen to about the Enemy being on his belly before God!
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