First of all to understand the humor in this post, you’re going to need to know I am generally pretty cheerful, perky even. I can drive my hubby nuts in the morning because I wake up ready to be out trilling with the forest creatures. Then I realize there’s going to be coffee involved and I can hardly contain my excitement.
So you see, I am literally all about selling joy, often in the form of biscuits and gravy. How in the world did I ever become the dark and divisive one??
Second, I am totally community oriented, as in let’s all just be happy and get along. Let’s just avoid every single controversial subject and put family, relationship, and connection first. I don’t care if you have a bone through your nose and a Bernie Sanders likeness painted across your car. It’s all good! Let’s just enjoy our time together, let’s celebrate life.
Good or bad, that’s my nature, that’s what comes naturally to me. So you can imagine my surprise when I suddenly became the one who is allegedly dark and divisive, dangerous, hateful, mean spirited, bigoted, and totally canceled. Rejected. Obviously the root of all evil, the cause of all the world’s problems.
That happens sometimes when you say, “No.” You expect it from people like teen agers. Sometimes you’ll say “No” and teen agers will be like, “well obviously you’re a horrible person who hates me.”
This is why I reject Social Justice Theories, why I’ve canceled intersectionality and Critical Race Theory, and why I’m not marching on behalf of BLM. Because these are all ideologies devoid of grace and mercy, opposed to reconciliation and redemption, and incapable of love! They fly right in the face of Christian values, they are ideologies that are the precise opposite of my very being.
It’s actually controversial to say that, but I am not sorry. It is the truth. Half the people who buy into this crap don’t even understand what they are involved in.
A whole lot of people I care about deeply have gotten themselves hooked into culture, or perhaps culture has their hooks into them. Regardless, this is a cultian culture built on lies and deception, one willing to leave common sense at the door and to cancel someone like me, least they be tainted and shamed by the embarrassing association.
I have been thoroughly, totally, mercilessly abused by this culture. Psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually terrorized, even. It goes way back some 50 years into my childhood and has been pretty much a relentless battle for decades. It’s all good, such trials build character and teach you how to lean into the Lord. I am just saying, I am not going to take it anymore, I am not anybody’s punching bag, and that dog does not hunt. I know more about Marxism and the pitfalls of social justice then any human being should ever have to.
You know what really stabbed me in the heart recently? Aunt Jemima got herself canceled by the high and mighty. She was deemed an embarrassment, relegated to the trash heap of history as something shameful to be cast out, rejected, and erased. My whole heart, my very soul just wailed in despair. I kid you not, I’ve been silently screaming, say her name, you fools! Say her name.
For those who don’t know, the first Aunt Jemima was named Nancy Green and she was born a slave. At the age of 59, Green made her debut as Aunt Jemima at the 1893 World’s Columbian Exposition. Her life was painful and complicated, rich and diverse, but she was an incredible overcomer, a woman triumphant who should be honored, respected, and celebrated.
I actually used to paint Aunt Jemima bottles, cover them with decorative papers, modge podge and baubles, and celebrate the resilience and strength that lurks in the heart of women. I am not ashamed of Aunt Jemima, I celebrate her. She is a hero.
I used to think our culture had daddy issues, and we do, but we got mama issues, too. This is a culture being programmed, indoctrinated to be ashamed of your parents, of your ancestors, of our heroes. I hear it a lot the older I get, all the lies and deception, the re-writing of history, how, in your day everything was backwards, women had no rights, no opportunity. You’re a total victim. You just don’t know any better. People in your day were all ignorant and uneducated. Be grateful we’re building a better world for you. You’re such an embarrassment.
Wow. Hear the underlying abuse in those words, the complete disrespect, the outright contempt. The answer to all of that is a resounding, “No,” and if such people had a lick of sense they’d respect their elders and listen to our wisdom. No, that is not our story at all.
This cultian ideology I whole heartedly reject renders people flat and two dimensional, fails to recognize nuance and diversity, and celebrates pride, like literally. And the flip side of pride is always shame, unresolved, unredeemed, unforgiven shame. Buckets of it! Shame is the currency that must be passed around and shared like a game of hot potato. It is a perpetual acknowledgement of sin without the benefit of potential grace and restoration. It is constant accusations about destroying the planet, global warming, having too many babies, and taking up space. It is a script in the hands of the accuser of the brethren. It is demonic. Dangerous. Devoid of grace.
So, I am actually doing my very best to be as dark and divisive as possible, because it is urgent, because people I care about deeply are impacted by it and I have seen the rottenness of that fruit, the way it traffics in deception and lies and ruins lives.
Divisive, aka, rightly dividing the word of truth.
atimetoshare.me said:
You have nailed it my friend. Everything you say is true unfortunately. We should never be afraid to speak out and that’s exactly what I love about you. There is no solving this problem until people put away their anger and hatred. Maybe then we can sit down and talk about the injustices on both sides. Hatred begets more hatred and anger accomplishes nothing. Thanks for an outstanding post.
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bullroarin said:
Great post! I think you have expressed what a lot of people feel right now but don’t know how to say it. A ray of hope in a dark and blind world…thanks for sharing. – DAVE
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HAT said:
But seriously, let’s add advertising (where I used to work, though Quaker Oats was one of our competitors, not one of our clients, but still, they were just down the street …) to that cultian culture of which you speak … [https://www.auntjemima.com/our-history]
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seekingdivineperspective said:
So, when are they getting rid of the picture of the stereotypical Quaker on the box of oats?
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HAT said:
LOL He has been updated and has lost weight. I think back in the 90s but not sure. Betty Crocker has been professionalized, too. With logos, it’s all about brand image. And what will sell.
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seekingdivineperspective said:
(Good grief.)
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Anna Waldherr said:
“For the time will come when men will not tolerate sound doctrine, but with itching ears they will gather around themselves teachers to suit their own desires” (2 Tim. 4: 3).
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Citizen Tom said:
Well said!
Now we are dark and divisive MAGA deplorables. Good thing we have that acronym or the darn t-shirts would get too complicated.
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Lisa V said:
Amen. Well said. There are way too many bandwagons and no one doing is any research before they jump on. Question everything. I’d like to add that BLM needs to stop calling itself a “movement.” It is an “organization. HUGE difference. Keep being salt and light. Keep spreading the truth.
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Tricia said:
I agree with this post 1000 times IB, very well said! And good for you for continuing on with speaking out against this evil despite being scorned and cancelled. Perhaps God was grooming you throughout those many years of abuse and learning for this very moment today when so many are spellbound by Marxism and ready to overthrow their own country.
I’m with Team IB!
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ColorStorm said:
Love the bulleted passion. After all it takes quite the woman to wither crops……. 😎😎.
But the ones who cry for their ‘cause’ in the name of ‘justice’ are clueless to both. But if we are so booked up over such ignorance, just enjoy for a moment the patience of Almighty God.
By now if I had my way, whole lots of people would have been pushed into the scrapyards via my big green tank, emphasis on green so folks would know I care bout the eco systems while I crash Metal.
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Guiltless Passion said:
Amen! We need exactly more of you! Joy, grace, unity….thank you for your wise words🙏🏼
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Clyde Herrin said:
Reblogged this on clydeherrin.
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ourladyofblahblahblah said:
Somebody has to be the divisive one IB.
I used to sit on our church council, and one of the other board members – a super nice guy outside of the boardroom – was always playing contrarian. Whatever motion came before us, no matter how reasonable and sound, he ALWAYS took the other side, asked hard questions, pointed out potential pitfalls. It irritated the crap out of me. And then one day I got to talking to him and he said he believes in the democratic process, and a vital part of democracy is OPPOSITION voices. Without dissent, there is no democracy, and even when he fully agrees with a motion before us, he is not content to simply “rubber stamp” the will of the council. That’s not democratic.
That made a lot of sense to me, and I’ve never forgot it. There are always two sides (at least!) to every issue and if all you’re looking at is one side, you’re missing half of the picture. How can you make well-informed decisions if you deliberately keep yourself ignorant of the other half of the picture?
It’s a crummy job, being the contrarian…but somebody has to do it.
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ourladyofblahblahblah said:
Oh, also, I got cancelled by my family this weekend. Got attacked three times in one day for my stance on masks. Got called an idiot, was told that I’m “insane” and that I’m putting everyone in the house at risk because of my delusions. When I suggested that if they’re that concerned about it, they should wear a mask around me then. You know, take some personal responsibility for protecting yourself. Funny how *that* went over like a lead balloon! How unreasonable of me!
*Shrugs* You can’t make people see what they’re unwilling to look at. They’re content to mock and disdain me for “fear-mongering” and when the day comes that the mob goes after *them* they’re gonna be left wondering how that happened.
Would you blame me if I said “told ya”?
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insanitybytes22 said:
I’m sorry you got canceled by your own family. Me too! We are not alone, either, this was a well orchastrated plot to sow division. I’ve now lived too long, experienced too much, to fall for that manipulation. My family now has the privilege of accepting me as I am…..or not. Either way, it’s all good. Regardless, love does not manipulate, control, and try to make relationship conditional on our compliance and politically correct thought. I have had to endure all manner of crazy and inconvenient family and be patient, so like it or not, others are called to do the same with me. 🙂
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ourladyofblahblahblah said:
It came totally out of left field for me, this is just not characteristic of our family. We are ordinarily so kind and generous to one another! So this was, unfortunately rather unexpected and a bit of a wake up for me. A LOT of people, including some that I really love, are getting sucked into this vortex of hatred and shame…and they don’t even know it.
And yes, this was orchestrated, it’s straight out of Hitler’s playbook – if you tell the lie often enough, people will believe it.
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Mel Wild said:
“So you can imagine my surprise when I suddenly became the one who is allegedly dark and divisive, dangerous, hateful, mean spirited, bigoted, and totally canceled. Rejected.”
No surprise. Welcome to Cancel Culture 2020! Where young people get their history and what to think from Twitter feeds and Apple or Google news on their phones. Honestly, if I believed a thing these news feeds were telling me on my phone, I would probably go slit my wrists. 😛
But there is a silver lining in all of this, to quote Napoleon, “Never interfere with your enemy when he is making a mistake.” … “Then, gentlemen,” said Napoleon, “let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him.”
A growing number of people (even on the left) are wanting off this crazy-train.
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Bobbie Carnes said:
Oh for more voices like yours. Thank you for being dark and divisive. I shared this on my Facebook feed because I have those I care about deeply who are being corrupted.
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thank you for your kind words and for sharing this post. 🙂
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