I really struggled when we started talking about passing the Affordable Care Act. I actually read the whole thing, all 700 pages. Now you know why I am quite crazy, I have never recovered from inflicting that document on myself. Our congresscritters were far wiser, most of them refused to even read it.
I wrote a lot of letters, I went to town hall meetings, I tried to reason with people. Perhaps it was just common sense or a prophetic eye, but I knew the issues, the cause and effect was going to be just devastating for so many people. And here in the midst of my little blue dot, all of my concerns just fell on deaf ears, in fact I was kind of dismissed as a hater of the poor.
I remember standing up at one meeting and saying, “but I am the poor!” It’s a somewhat amusing memory. I was so confused because I really was “the poor,” trying to advocate on behalf of “the poor,” but to no avail.
I guess because I am “the poor” and because I spent so much time working as a caregiver, I had an awful vision about what was going to happen. Not only would hubby and I lose our insurance, we’d get priced right out and then fined for not having insurance. We fall in that donut hole, a few hundred dollars too much for Medicaid, a few hundred too short for an insurance premium and deductible. The ACA navigator flat out told us to quit our jobs. Working just wasn’t “cost-effective” for us.
But a far bigger concern than winding up uninsured and financially broken at a time of our lives when we really need some access healthcare, was my fear of an epidemic. Having spent years watching, I know exactly what the system often does when you are poor and they have nothing else to offer you. They give you pain pills. It’s human nature, I suppose. If I can’t get you into physical therapy and surgery, if I can’t heal you, all I can really do is prescribe some meds. Here, have some Oxycontin. Let’s just try to manage your pain. Of course, we also have a powerful pharmaceutical industry pressuring doctors to do just that, prescribe the meds. Never mind concerns about addiction or whether or not people actually need morphine for a stiff neck or a headache.
And that’s exactly what happened, precisely what played out. People started going to the doctor looking for help and wound up with prescriptions that led to addiction. So, so many have now died due to our negligence, to our foolishness. I finally stopped caregiving, I just couldn’t bear witness to it anymore. People my age, fairly healthy, were soon on meds, addicted, suffering even more addiction related health problems, and now needing a caregiver. I began to feel like a huge enabler of a broken system, one that was literally killing people. People my age, people I went to school with, people who went to the doctor for a back ache and came out a heroin addict. And then it eventually killed them. And then it killed them, over and over again, one right after another.
Yes, addiction is complicated, but when you live in a state legalizing marijuana, celebrating the joys of the ACA, and prescribing and astounding amount of opioids, you have a perfect confluence, a recipe for complete disaster. Your government is your authority, your culture is you leadership, the experts, the professionals are all telling you they know what’s best for you, and so you trust them.
Addiction is complicated, but addiction does not just happen in a vacuum. A lot of things have to line up, have to pave the way, have to enable the whole process.
It weighs heavy on me sometimes, as in it was all just so preventable, so unnecessary. Our opioid epidemic is a man-made disaster. Like lambs being lead to the slaughter, people went to the doctor, took their kids to the doctor, and got their opioids. Open up the borders and set policies in place that make it easy for illegal drugs to come in, that gives people some form of economic stimulus, and you wind up with the greatest epidemic this country has ever seen. More people have now died from drug overdoses in just one year than were lost in the entirety of the Vietnam War. So, so many deaths, collateral damage from this broken system.
I am angry sometimes and sad, still grieving all that suffering, much that I have seen up close and personal, but what my heart really craves is justice, some way of stopping this, some way of getting it right, some way of holding people accountable. That’s happening in small ways, there is some hope on the horizon, but it’s been a really long slog.
Really ironic, 3 of the movers and shakers here, the local wildlife, those I fought the hardest with over the ACA, are all dead now. Dead in drug over doses. Kind of weird when you start wanting to see justice for your ideological enemies, for those who fell victim to their own belief system their own ideology.
I’m still healing from the frustration, from the sense of helplessness, from the anger, from the grief. A bit funny, somebody asked me what things I still needed to forgive. Well, it’s such a broad brush, things like the total depravity of mankind, greed, foolishness, deaf ears, betrayals, the epic fails of our system, our lack of wisdom, not being heard, other people’s denial, poor politics, a constipated and powerless church, the nature of people, stubbornness, being rendered invisible. It’s a long list and it’s an ongoing process.
It’s really hard when you get mad at the whole world, at the nature of people, at the senselessness and futility of it all. On the bright side, my heart is really now resting with the prophets of old, the minor prophets, with the sheer frustration of trying to say to people, “Look, this is what’s going to happen. Let’s not do it.” I now know why they were so often out in the wilderness tearing their hair out and eating bugs.
I get mad at God too sometimes I suppose, although it’s hard to be mad with such kindness, such understanding, such unmerited favor and comfort. But yes, I do get mad sometimes, mad that some us are going to see things coming down the pike that we cannot control, cannot change, cannot stop, cannot prevent in any way. It strikes me as kind of cruel to show people a peek into the future, a future that is not necessarily going to be good. That’s a hard path to navigate, a tough thing to try to sort out. I’m stuck just kind of hanging onto the goodness of God, trying to trust that there is a method to all this madness, a purpose that I can not always see.
I’m pondering Lazarus today, Lazarus who was risen from the dead. His death was God’s will, it happened under God’s sovereignty, but Jesus. Jesus was the resurrection, Jesus IS the resurrection, and when He brought out Lazarus, He also revealed the Father’s will to us. I suppose that is a big part of why the authorities of the day were so angry, so convinced this Man must be stopped. He was God’s will. Love how Jesus says in John 11:4, “This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.”
The tale of Lazarus and Jesus reminds me that there is a method to all this madness, that often in my grief and sadness I cannot see it and I do not understand, but Jesus does. Jesus knows. Things fall into place for the glory of God, there are stories being written that I cannot always see. I can only see through the glass darkly, like looking at polished bronze, a warbly and smudged reflection at best.
I’m reminded too of how Jesus comforts Martha and Mary, about how Martha doesn’t really understand, how she says, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.” And Jesus says, “I am the resurrection and the life….”
I suppose in an odd way if it weren’t for the ACA and the opioid epidemic and all these years of frustration and grief, I would never have drawn so desperately close to Him, so hungry for answers, half-starved really. Perhaps that’s one of the hidden benefits of our suffering, it does draw us closer to God, because there are some questions that only He can answer.
Ask them. He gives great answers. Seek and you will find.
g.w said:
You unveiled the devils blueprint for the destruction of a culture that covers half the globe. Solomon said it: where there is much knowledge there is much misery. I would rather have the knowledge anyway, the misery I can give to the Lord for surcease. And one act of kindness in a sea of misery will drive the devil to distraction.
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insanitybytes22 said:
Yeah, a blueprint for mankind’s destruction. The year I was born Paul Harvey wrote his famous, “if I were the devil” essay. Among other things he said, “I’d peddle narcotics to whom I could. I’d sell alcohol to ladies and gentlemen of distinction. I’d tranquilize the rest with pills. If I were the devil, I’d soon have families at war with themselves, churches at war with themselves and nations at war with themselves until each, in its turn, was consumed.”
On the bright side, you are quite right, it only takes one drop if kindness to drive the devil to distraction. 🙂
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seekingdivineperspective said:
I remember that excellent essay by Paul Harvey. It needs to be broadcast again… I wonder if anyone would pay attention …
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oneta hayes said:
Wonderful how your love for people for God shine through your words. And I’m always warmed by the way you give recognition to Jesus – our way to know God Thanks, IB.
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thanks Oneta, much appreciated.
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MJThompson said:
While reading this, I considered a reply that included an invitation to you referencing an Article I wrote entitled: Explaining the Existence of Evil. I soon discovered when I reached this post’s conclusion that you’ve already ‘been there, done that’.
You ended with: “…that’s one of the hidden benefits of our suffering, it does draw us closer to God, because there are some questions that only He can answer”.
So all I wish to add now, is well said! May many receive comfort from your sharing.
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any [a]trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God” – 2Cor. 1:3, 4.
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insanitybytes22 said:
I’ll come over and read it, MJ! May others be comforted indeed, but we need tell ourselves this truth too, early and often.:)
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Mel Wild said:
“The ACA navigator flat out told us to quit our jobs. Working just wasn’t “cost-effective” for us.”
This advice is just one of the many indicators showing just how broken this system is at a systemic level. It’s pure socialism run amuck (which it always eventually does), which disincentivizes, decreases production, and lowers morale. Not much different than the Matrix movie. Keep the herd sedated. 🙂
My wife and I were just talking about how our healthcare system is not actually based on finding cures but on treating systems. And Big Pharma throws big conferences for doctors to show them how to give more medication. We are one of two countries (us and New Zealand) who actually advertise prescription drugs to the public. But, as you said, it’s literally killing us.
At least there’s a growing number of Functional Practitioners in the healthcare profession who actually look at fixing what’s wrong with a person’s body instead of just giving them drugs to mask the symptoms.
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Mel Wild said:
Correction: It should read, “…our healthcare system is not actually based on finding cures but on treating SYMPTOMS. Crazy spell-check! 🙂
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Doug said:
I have a question that goes back to the days when you were apparently vigorously debating Obamacare at the outset. What were your particular reasons at the time? I mean, now we know so much more of the shortcomings and what Congress never bothered to address to fix/improve Obamacare as Obama suggested in the beginning.. there are some serious concerns, no question about it. The Republicans had the last nine years to come up with alternatives… and now Trump, biased to his own misconceptions of life, is just being bellicose because the Act has the Obama moniker on it and he hates that kind of thing… and again.. his “secret” plan for the 2020 election to replace Obamacare is the same as it was for 2016.. trust me and vote for me and only then will I deliver you from insurance evil.
Honestly, back when Obamacare started I was anxiously waiting for the Conservative plan in order to compare. Nothing. The old system sucked.. to be sure. But as with every law Congresses passes there will always be someone somewhere that will get the short end of the stick and end up paraded around in public for all to see as a perfect example how bad it is.
I pretty much am not qualified to discuss any ANY subject because I am white, male, of European descent, never been addicted to any drugs, and not Jewish. My existence alone threatens the stability of the world. The only good part about me is that no ancestors were rich enough to own slaves and by the time they gravitated here there were no slaves to be had anyway. Now, that’s not to say my ancestors didn’t harbor racial bias against black Americans. One can presume if they were white then at least some must have. So.. having said (admitted?) all that nonsense…. I can easily understand the problems that lead to drug addiction in general.. the reasons are as many as the people who struggle with that. But now we are in some crazy national epidemic with opiods and fentynal… because of wildly prescribed prescriptions and the ease to procure this stuff openly… and I can’t help but wonder… when do people start taking personal responsibility?
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insanitybytes22 said:
Ha! Uhggggg, Doug! You back up a dump truck of issues and want me to solve them all? So you blame Republicans, accuse conservatives of not coming up with a better plan, bash Trump, pour some white guilt on the whole mess, lament male insecurity, toss in some slavery, claim you understand addiction but can’t judge, and then speak of personal responsibility?
Ai yi yi. Now I just have a headache.
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Doug said:
D. All of the above.
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sullivanspin said:
I just watched a drug documentary about the city of Seattle and the HUGE issue drug abuse has become. Very eye-opening!
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insanitybytes22 said:
I saw that! That was some good journalism. There’s been a lot of criticism of that piece, denial, people unwilling to accept how bad it is, but it really showed the truth of some stuff that I’ve observed too. I used to spend a lot of time in Seattle, but not anymore because it really is that bad.
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Re-Farmer said:
As a Canadian, living with the “socialist” universal health care so many in the US point to with love or hate (both sides get it wrong, but then, Canadians don’t get our own system, either), I could not understand how anyone thought Obamacare could possibly work! How do does a government force people to buy from a third party, under threat of fines if they don’t, and think it will work? How does it make sense to fine people who can’t afford the insurance in the first place? I have friends in the US, and since the ACA passed, they can’t afford health care anymore. The premiums are insane, and they can’t afford the deductible. So they suffer until they qualify for Medicaid. !!?!?!?!!
As for the opioid crisis, it directly affects my husband’s care. He resisted for years, due to fears of addiction, but finally was willing to try opioids. The type he’s using is supposed to be non addictive. It works better than what he was on before, but his pain is still not under control; it’s a new medication, and he’s already maxed on the known dosage, so his doctor doesn’t want to change it until he’s been seen by the pain clinic – and he’s been on that waiting list for more than a year now!
Thankfully, this medication is covered by his insurance (yes, we still need private insurance in Canada!). The hoop jumping to get it is ridiculous. He can only have a hand written prescription. We have to take the new/updated prescription to the pharmacy ourselves (no faxes from doctor to pharmacist allowed) within 3 days of receiving it. He can only get X number of days filled at a time (it got upped to 3 months, recently, which has been a huge help). He cannot get refills in advance, and can only call them in a maximum 3 days before he runs out. If the pharmacy has to order it in and it doesn’t come in before he’s out, he’s stuck. When we moved, it took months to get his insurance and prescriptions straightened out. We were able to get his other medications refilled to the max, so they were fine, but the pain meds – the ones he needed the most – soon ran out and he lived in excruciating pain until we could finally get his insurance straightened out and working with the new pharmacist. But because they are a narcotic, he still had to get his medical files transferred to a new doctor and get all new prescriptions written up, before he could get them. Now he’s in the hospital for something else, and the hospital has had to go into his own stash for this medication, because they’ve had problems ordering it in for him; he’s the only patient they’ve ever had with it, apparently. All this, because of the concerns of opioid addiction, for someone who actually needs it. 😦
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insanitybytes22 said:
Wow, that’s quite the story! It’s similar here for many people. Some people really do need pain meds and the risk of addiction can be monitored and cared for. One thing that happened to us is that you get a certain amount of pain meds from a Dr, get hooked, and then the red tape to get more is so complicated, that people just started getting it off the street. And of course it was a perfect set up, drug pushers, even some pharmaceutical companies, were standing there ready to pounce as soon as the need was there.
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Re-Farmer said:
The crazy thing is, when you are dealing with THAT level of pain, addiction should be the last of anyone’s worries. And there are so many non-addictive alternatives (my husband when through several of them) for lower levels of pain.
In the end, whatever system we’re under, the fact is that few medical professionals know how to deal with pain, and pain levels are very subjective (I hate that “pain scale of 1-10 thing – my husband’s 6 is someone else’s 10, just because he’s been living with is for so long).
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insanitybytes22 said:
I hear you, addiction is a secondary concern for people who genuinely need pain management. I remember a burn victim once who really needed multiple meds and later when he had healed, he needed to detox from his addictions. He knew what he was getting into when he began, as did his doctors, and his recovery was successful.
We really do need to advance or progress on our pain management skills. There is so much we can do but it really takes multiple solutions, personalized to each individual.
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Re-Farmer said:
Before Canada brought in medically assisted suicide, I was part of some very emotionally charged debates about it with people on Facebook (almost all of whom have unfriended me, since then… *L*). One woman, who was in favour of legalizing assisted suicide and euthanasia, brought up as an example, a family member’s incredibly painful final months before death. What she unintentionally highlighted were the problems of pain management and lack of palliative care. Her family member was denied enough morphine to take away the pain, because of the addiction concerns.
This person was DYING, in excruciating pain, but was denied adequate amounts of pain medication, because he might have gotten addicted. It was illegal for them to give him more morphine.
But now, we can legally kill suffering patients, instead.
Absolutely insane.
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seekingdivineperspective said:
You are an amazing writer. I want to prayerfully share this with a few people, as you said what so many of us think but haven’t had enough eloquence – or experience – to make us credible. Thanks for another great piece.
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thank you for your kindness. Much appreciated.
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authorstephanieparkermckean said:
Reblogged this on Stephanie Parker McKean and commented:
She is right: inightful and gut-twisting, “More people have now died from drug overdoses in just one year than were lost in the entirety of the Vietnam War. So, so many deaths, collateral damage from this broken system.”
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authorstephanieparkermckean said:
Sadly, you are so right. Thanks for the truth and insight. I Facebooked & reblogged this. God bless you.
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SharaC said:
That is a crazy statistic about the numbers of deaths, I didn’t know that. The entire thing is too much almost to wrap your head around, we live in a culture that in so many ways tells us to push and succeed at all costs, but the dark underside of it is a system that’s entirely rigged against people doing that. A government that would rather have you dependent than productive is doomed. What a time. Your broad brush/forgiveness statement made me laugh out loud… “let’s begin with human depravity and move on from there…” 🙈😂
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ColorStorm said:
Read the whole dman thing? Impressive.
One would then think that your opinion would be worth more than most, since you are one of the ones the powers that be pretend to care for. But nnnnnnnnnnno.
Me? I guess I just do not have that iron stomach such as you. lol
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heatherjo86 said:
It’s sickening to see how messed up this world is and how much worse it’s getting each and every day. My mother-in-law worked her whole life only to have her retirement ruined with one surgery and a truck load of medical bills. She was too young for Medicaid at the time (only by a few years). One day soon Jehovah God will fix this mess (Daniel 2:44; Revelation 21:3,4). I just hope I’m alive to see it.
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