Let’s slay maths today because maths is hard and I hates it!
I jest a bit, in truth I have some math intuition and “knowing” that will at least get me through high school algebra. I remember the struggles to teach my kids and their complaints, “I’m never going to use this in the real world!” They were totally right, too. You will probably never need this silliness….. Except perhaps for shoe sales. Being able to calculate 30 percent off, BOGO, plus sales tax and determine if you still have enough money leftover for a latte is really IMPORTANT. This is the stuff of life, people.
My dad was a real math whiz and he often spoke of the music and mystery within numbers. There is magic there. Also, it is not real, “real” in the sense of being natural, material, biological, tangible. I can’t “prove” math to someone like I might prove “trees.” I can help you to “know” a tree by having you walk face first into it. See, it’s “real” enough. But to prove math, all I have is some chicken scratch on a piece of paper and without some understanding of what the symbols mean, it’s all just gibberish.
Spiritual things are a bit like that, too. They have to be known and felt, experienced. Trusted in. Love is like that, too. And God is love.
I often feel like this girl trapped behind plastic wrap. Yep, Saran Wrap Girl. I’m screaming behind plexi glass, all these people are walking by, and yet no one can hear me. For the past year or so I’ve been working in a situation where communication is really challenging. Some people don’t speak English, some people who do, don’t listen, and nobody speaks…..love. God is love and love is actually a spiritual language, kind of like math.
Oh, we all know the “words,” and sometimes we know the feeling of “love” or think we do, but it’s all kind of meaningless, like chicken scratch on a page, if you haven’t received it, if Jesus is not just an intuitive part of your whole being.
Those are probably some controversial words, sure to cause offense. I’m not trying to be mean here or judgy. I just know people don’t yet really know the love of Christ by the way they treat themselves and other people. In the land of All Tolerance For All Things Always, I’m not supposed to say that. Might make people “feel bad.”
Recently in the early morning I had yet another a kid across from my house try to over dose and kill himself. He’s lucky to be alive, it was not a good scene. It was a miracle he had friends who thought to check on him or he’d be dead. So you know, drama, screaming, yelling, wrestling the guy down, blood, ambulances, cops. All I could do was stand back, pray he survived, and so far he has, so that’s a good thing. Then I told his friends that Jesus loves them and that they are always welcome to come to church where we too will love them.
That’s such a simple message, but to those who don’t understand, don’t speak the language, it’s like trying to explain computer coding to someone living in the 3rd century. I got nothing but these x’s an o’s I can scratch on a piece of paper. Except there wasn’t even really “paper” as we know it in the 3rd century. Never mind coding, let me try to explain paper….
I try so hard not to make people “feel bad.” Your “feeling bad” is so not my goal. Much like trying to introduce my kids to math was not actually about trying to make them miserable.
It was an odd juxtaposition, in the aftermath of this really awful scene, I encountered the almost comical, “you shouldn’t make people feel bad by telling them Jesus loves them.” Right. Like I said, I often feel like a girl trapped behind plexi glass trying to communicate in a foreign land where nobody speaks the language. It’s heart breaking sometimes.
Call me crazy, but actually rejection, depression, addiction, homelessness, suicide, and near death, are the “feel bad” things of life. Not the love of Jesus! Jesus just wants to pour His healing love into all the parts of you that need Him. And we ALL need Him.
It is actually love and community that so often helps to keep the bad things away. There aren’t a lot of simple answers in life, but that one sure is. What tends to ail us is always separation and isolation, separation from God, separation from other people. If you grew up in the fractured reality of dysfunction, a broken culture, and chaotic relationships, what I call the 9th circuit of hell, you won’t understand that until you take a leap of faith and reach for what is missing. What is missing is an unknown, a variable. So you have to reach for what you cannot see and do not yet fully understand, and trust that the equation can be solved, becasue math has a tangible substance to it…..if you trust and believe.
“Feeling bad” really is not about a gentle invitation to come visit church, a church filled with many people who have probably walked right where you are. Maybe you know everything already. So come and teach the rest of us! Even if you don’t think you need the church, the church sure needs you.
I need you, because math is really hard and watching people suffer hurts.
Doug said:
I realize that your reference to math is a segue to the “other” thing… but it reminded me of a post I did on my old blog back in 2013 regarding my own difficulties with math.
https://dougsboomerrants.wordpress.com/2013/11/12/math-sucks-and-other-scholastic-rants/
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insanitybytes22 said:
Ha! That was really funny, Doug. Now you have gone and triggered me! Don’t even get me started on “new math” and “show your work.” That stuff was just invented to drive us insane! First spend all your time learning how to convert and divide fractions, like 172 of them every single day. Once you have totally mastered that, we will suddenly discover we’ve been teaching math all wrong. Now we need you to show your work…..in blue and green dots on a number line. No, two halves do not make a whole, that is totally wrong because clearly your green dot should go in the blue box!
That kind of junk also requires one to learn a whole new language, the language of academia. Arrggg….
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Doug said:
Oh hey.. I found this old post the other day (absolutely NOT related to anything in your post) you likely will find humorous.. if you can cover your ears.
https://dougsboomerrants.wordpress.com/2014/09/01/its-time-to-curse-apparently-warning-profanity-alert/
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lynnabbottstudios said:
I love the way you think! The algebraic equation is a wonderful analogy! 🙂 ❤ ❤
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thanks, Lynn. Always appreciate your encouraging words. 🙂
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authorstephanieparkermckean said:
Amen. I suffer because of math…but that misses your point! A great blog with great humor as always. Thanks!
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Salvageable said:
Saran Wrap Girl? That sounds like Polythene Pam!
I love math, got straight As all through twelve grades of school, and my high school math teachers couldn’t understand why I wasn’t entering a math-related field for college and career. I homeschool. My sixteen year old daughter hates math. We’re getting through it together, but it’s not always easy.
You make think trees are more real than math, but Pythagoras said that everything consists of numbers–they are the ultimate building blocks of reality. J.
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Doug said:
It’s totally amazing any of us survived public education. By comparison, my three kids aced everything in school.
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muffythedramaslayer said:
This. Sigh. I’m taking an online course in Christian Worldview at a Christian university and in the required discussion forums I STILL feel like I’m behind Plexiglass screaming and unable to get through to people. We as a culture have added so many layers to the truth that require wading through to express the simplest of thoughts, such as “Jesus loves you.” Maybe this is why Christ said “the truth will set you free” (John 8:32 ESV)
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Wally Fry said:
Down the road from us are some folks who are frankly on the rough side if things. The sheriff goes by at least a few times a week. Every few months I will grab a partner and go knock on every door down there and invite them to come see us. We actually do pick up some of the kids now but still nothing from grown folks. Anyway I actually got asked once why I went down there because “those people do drugs and stuff.” Sigh. This is the church sometimes
Math. The first time I tried to build something I sure wished u had paid attention in geometry
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insanitybytes22 said:
Going down there really matters, Wally! I don’t testify about it nearly enough, but I was once one of those kids. We seldom stayed in one place long, but when I crossed paths with someone spreading the good news, they were like a lifeline to me. LOL, they would hide me, my parents didn’t want anyone to know I was there, but I knew what was going on. I I knew the Lord back then, but I thought I was crazy, that there was something wrong with me. Just catching a glimpse of other Christians in the world reassured me I wasn’t crazy and I wasn’t alone. It changed the whole story.
Recently a bit of science came out, sociology that suggests the average person will impact 10,000 people in their lifetime, for good or ill. That’s a lot of souls we don’t even realize are watching us.
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Wally Fry said:
Yeah there’s a lot of these kids IN and it’s heartbreaking. They come and go. Got avrrak blessing a few weeks ago when some actually came back. The little girl always remembers me just because one time I did a puzzle with her. Go figure. He older brother and I are close too. He went to camp with us last year and acted out so I made him put his mattress by my bunk and sleep. Apparently no one had ever disciplined him and lived him at the same time. All the adults are just meaner than snakes to the kids in large part. It really makes me angry the things we see working with kids
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SharaC said:
Tragic that the world equates the Good News with feeling bad. It’s like punching someone who’s trying to save you from drowning. 🙈
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Citizen Tom said:
You may enjoy this old post.
=>https://citizentom.com/2008/06/22/what-is-mathematical-proof-does-2-2-4/
I consider it one of my pedantic
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Citizen Tom said:
Misfired. Never, ever want to even start to write something on a “smartphone” I will regret someone else seeing.
Anyway, I probably should have included this. 😉
Hardly a great math guy, but I suppose that is the reason I finally learned to put into words what Math is for. Mathematics is just a tool for modeling the natural world.
Consider something like the Big Bang Theory. It exists because some mathematicians took what see in the sky today and extrapolated the movement of the stars backwards billions of years. The proper reaction should be skepticism. We are using data from stars that vast dist
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Citizen Tom said:
Stupid “SEND” link is right next to end of the input line. Makes moving the cursor to that spot problematic.
Anyway, many treat the Big Bang Theory as proven fact, but it is based upon sketchy data, and we only have that data for one point in time. Assuming the Big Bang is proven amounts to taking math so seriously we let math define reality. Yet many of the same people who believe in the Big Bang cannot bring themselves to believe in God.
Now juxtapose the paragraph above with your post. Worth a chuckle, don’t you think?
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insanitybytes22 said:
The big bang really is a bit funny. People give me a hard time but I’m actually not the one running around going “bang” and “poof” as if that somehow settles things.
Many people will accept the reality of math but not the reality of God. But is math “real?” I suppose it is in the sense that without pi the world would lack substance and be made up of nothing but squiggly lines? On the other hand, math did not actually give the world substance and form, it has only helped us to understand form that is already there.
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Citizen Tom said:
@IB
Is math real? No. Mathematics is a type of language. Just as we can describe a part of the world with words or with a picture, we can create a mathematical formula.
What happens when a scientist creates a mathematical formula? That mathematical formula is suppose to describe certain cause and effect relationships. If that mathematical formula describes those cause and effect relationships accurately, we celebrate the scientist who derived it as a genius, and we give his formula his name and the status of a law. Otherwise, we discard that mathematical formula, not the natural world.
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insanitybytes22 said:
It’s somewhat comical how quickly we can become all lost in definitions, Tom. “Real” is such a funny word, because what is “real?” We like to ask big questions like, “is God real,” but we have yet to define if we ourselves are actually “real.” Can you prove your own existence? Those genuine scientists, the kind with intellectual humility and honesty, will flat out tell you, we still struggle to even define “human consciousness.”
And yet we believe ourselves worthy to judge God’s existence on His behalf? Sheesh.
My dad would agree, math is a language. Actually he would probably say it was music and we ourselves are just a song being sung by our Creator. Math is an attempt to define the notes, to hear the rhyme and reason behind the music.
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Citizen Tom said:
@IB
Some argue with this statement: “I think, therefore I exist.” I just assume they are not thinking.😀
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flowersinthebrain said:
Really enjoyed this!
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insanitybytes22 said:
Glad you enjoyed it.
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Stuart L. Tutt said:
I have nominated you for the Sunshine Blogger Award. Sorry for the last notice, but life has been a little hectic this past week.
https://stubaby777.wordpress.com/2018/08/29/the-sunshine-blogger-award-2018-5th-nomination
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insanitybytes22 said:
Thank you! Sorry about the hectic life. That happens to me too sometimes. 🙂
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Stuart L. Tutt said:
You’re very welcome 🙂
Thank you. It’ll be back to “normal” soon…I hope..lol
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patrickhawthorne01 said:
You are so right…Trying to explain love to someone who does not know love is hard. That is where the Holy Spirit comes in. He has a way of smacking them upside the head just as if they face planted into a tree.
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Mel Wild said:
Well said, IB.
Back in my nerdy engineering days I loved math! In our classes, we used to solve problems using differential equations and then plug our answer into an analog computer (this is back in the 80s), and voila! We got what we predicted would happen. Of course, it’s meaningless in every other part of life. LOL! But I like your analogy with math and communication. Math is like logic or even theology. It’s abstract until you understand the language and can apply it your everyday life. Theology is the “math” of why God is love. The experience of being loved by God is real, the theology only gives abstract language (math) to the experience.
“Call me crazy, but actually rejection, depression, addiction, homelessness, suicide, and near death, are the “feel bad” things of life. Not the love of Jesus! Jesus just wants to pour His healing love into all the parts of you that need Him. And we ALL need Him.”
Amen! You would think this would be self-evident! I think the problem there is the dissociative disconnect. People equate God with Santa Claus put us on the naughty list, rather than Him being the source and essence of pure love. So, from Adam on, we’ve been hiding in the bushes from Love. And He’s been calling out, “Where are you?” Pretty tragic, actually.
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