Our house is about 50 years old, built as cheaply as possible back in the day, so everything is now worn out. To make matters worse there’s always been 6-8 people living here, far too much wear and tear for such a tiny house. Sometime ago the kitchen sink just kind of fell apart, our forever faucet not even pretending to last forever.
Thankfully, I married a contractor and as everyone knows there’s no reason to remind a guy every six months or so that something needs to be fixed. If they said they would get to it, they will get to it….
Somewhat funny, I had a mailbox on a rotten post that kept falling across my driveway for a number of years. I’d have to stop the car, get out, pick up the mailbox, and then pull into the driveway. One day I just became this Scottish Highlander throwing a caber and heaved the whole thing about 20 feet across the road. I have to give my hubby credit, he can move quickly sometimes, because before I made it into the house he was standing behind me with a post hole digger, almost as if he had been keeping it in his back pocket all this time.
So of course, last week the kitchen sink eventually crashed onto the floor, taking the plumbing with it. Poor hubby really has a tough time because he has to work all week, there’s never enough money to fix anything, and naturally what always begins as simply replacing a washer, soon turns into redoing all the kitchen plumbing, getting a new sink, and reinforcing the counters.
Of course it was a Friday night, the banks are closed, we live in the middle of nowhere, and so replacing a sink and a faucet is not such a simple thing. We pooled our cash on hand and came up with 32 dollars, which caused us both to cackle hysterically.
I really do live on a wing and prayer, answered prayers, because Saturday we just decided to go for a drive and there at a garage sale, leaning against a mail box was our new sink. Lo and behold the hardware store had some faucets they were sending back to China, so exceedingly cheap, that day only.
Hubby doesn’t believe in prayer quite like I do, in God’s perfect synchronicity, as if God would actually hear my pleas and petitions for simple things and bring it all together, place just what is needed right in our path, but I do, because I have been living for a long time on a wing and prayer.
“Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.”
Believe it or not, for all the grumbling, hubby really is happiest when he has a job to do, a project, the opportunity to be Batman and to save the day, which he did beautifully because we have a kitchen once again, but I know Who really stands over us, Who looks out for us, He who answers prayers and makes impossible things possible.
C Sue T Gramma said:
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Jim said:
what? no pic of you chucking the mailbox across the road?
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insanitybytes22 said:
What, you don’t think that handsome man in a skirt is me? 🙂
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Debbie L said:
Lol!!! Our Lord allows us to be the prayer warriors for our husbands so HE may be glorified!
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insanitybytes22 said:
LOL! I was just thinking that very same thing. May God get all the glory, but how kind of Him to give me Batman, too. It’s like a triple run. 🙂
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Desdi said:
Great post.
(Let me get my tartan on and try again, rolling the R a bit like Sean Connery):
Grrrrreat post, so bloody great the laddie has a wee problem tossing the thing…
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oneta hayes said:
Hilarious! So much me and mine! Our last emergency was a refrig. Oh, what a story; I must blog it Too long for comment. A fantastic read.
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Wally Fry said:
“Believe it or not, for all the grumbling, hubby really is happiest when he has a job to do, a project, the opportunity to be Batman and to save the day”
I so get that.
Anyway, should I be looking for you on the next Highland Games?
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Julie (aka Cookie) said:
I think of you IB every time I walk past my front door.
Reason being is that there is an artificial Christmas tree all bagged up sitting upright near the front door…It actually gives folks who see it for the first time a fright as they think a person is standing there. It’s on wheels but that was as far as I could get it.
Our son moved away so my husband is now minus a helper and he and just I can’t get the thing out the door and down the steps to carry / wheel the thing down around the side of house to the basement cause Lord knows, we can’t carry it down the basement stairs—if memory serves, I think it was at a season such as this…Spring or summer that you had posted a tale about the Christmas decorations sitting by the door waiting to be carried out to a storage shed. Such that they became a fixture of decor.
I can’t exactly recall how you motivated those in the house designated to help—but eventually you got them moved…just in time to fetch them right back out….
I’ve decided my tree will be much like your decorations…
despite my husband having had a few folks stop in and out—no one can seem to think, “hey, wanna help me move the tree to the basement before my wife has a conniption”
so I understand—about mailboxes, sinks, and even Christmas 🙂
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insanitybytes22 said:
Ha! So nice to know someone else understands. I remember the Christmas decorations,they sat there for so long,I finally drapped a table cloth over them. Then, sometime in December they suddenly got put away! Ai yi yi.
I have a fake tree still sitting on my desk as we speak. I just stuffed some plastic eggs in and called it good. It’s not really a Christmas tree anymore, now it’s just a plant. Let’s hope I don’t forget and try to water it or something.
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Julie (aka Cookie) said:
😂
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Mel Wild said:
Ah!! I totally relate. Our house is almost 100 years old and I believe it’s pretty much held together by dirt (think “The Money Pit”). One story about that…We bought some flooring on sale to redo our downstairs bathroom a few years ago…when we pulled up the old flooring, we decided to fix the toilet that seemed to be leaning to one side…which was because the floor was rotting…which was hiding a broken flange…which was attached to a broken pipe (in our wall). $1,500 in plumbing bills later, we were able to put down the $50 worth of flooring we bought! 🙂
I’m not a contractor, but I play one in my mind!. If I can’t fix it with duct tape, it probably shouldn’t be fixed. Funny thing is, we’re looking for a new sink too (to go with our lifetime warranty Moen faucet that’s broken).
Thanks for the opportunity to commiserate!
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insanitybytes22 said:
Ha! I so understand. We were going to put a window in once, but than we decided we really didn’t want to cut into that wall because with our luck they’ll be no studs or insulation…or anything at all you might hope to find in a wall. What you can’t see, you don’t have to worry about. 😉
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Mel Wild said:
“What you can’t see, you don’t have to worry about.”
Exactly!
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The Isaiah 53:5 Project said:
You have a way of making life seem funny even when it isn’t:)
My house isn’t as old as yours but it seems I am never running out of things to do too
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fromscratchmomblog said:
So just tacking on to a post a few days old that possibly wouldn’t have many more comments later… hey, IB, I tried way back to start a page just because I was commenting on WordPress and then I tried again to write and actually publish a piece today. But I saw when I searched the Internet what came up says “site title” at the top and shows nothing useful that I can tell. Mind checking what you can see when you search versus clicking from my name here versus if I give you links? Either WordPress is a mess or I am inept with it or both. Lol.
https://fromscratchmomblog.wordpress.com/2017/04/17/what-are-love-and-marriage-i-dont-think-that-means-what-you-think-it-means/
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insanitybytes22 said:
It went through! You did well. You don’t have a site title yet. I think if you go to your wordpress dashboard and click customize my site, there is a tab for site title. Then you just name your site, save it and you’re done.
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fromscratchmomblog said:
Thank-you, IB! I will look again when I get home. I’m just at the start of 10 hour work day. …so maybe I should say I will try to make time all around the 7 or so people who will need a piece of me whenever I’m at home. I know you understand. LoL good thing we’re both so weak and fragile as to trustGod rather than ourselves, huh?!
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fandmplumbing said:
I love this blog! And yes I do believe like you do that we all have gifts, but without some kind of faith in a higher power – nothing is possible
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