Seriously, I call forth all my sisters to go forth boldly and proclaim the Good News. Your sweet and gentle voices are so desperately needed in the world right now.
That sounds like a paradox doesn’t it? To be sweet and gentle and bold all at the same time? It isn’t really, but I understand it’s a tall order. I myself am somewhat quiet, I like to keep a low profile. A few years back, God really drug me out of my shell, kicking and screaming, and set me on fire. Since then I think I may have met every appalling, lost, confused, false prophet known to man, and those are just the women! It’s as if someone turned on the flood gates and the pipes are now broken, and over and over again God has said, “See, this is why I need you to speak.”
First off, what’s a Godly woman? It’s simple really, you turn to Jesus Christ and you let Him flesh out the details. That “fleshing out” is no joke either. It requires a lot of honesty and submission to Christ alone. We aren’t Godly because of who we are, how we look or act, how we behave or dress, we are Godly because of who He is and what He does in a human heart. Let Him flesh out the details. He’ll tailor it and make you a better version of yourself.
What is a gawdly woman? Gawdly women are often marked by an intense dislike of their sisters and they do things that are very demeaning and disrespectful towards other women, and they try to do it in Jesus Christ’s name. Someone once criticized me for never talking about the sins of women, well those are some big ones, envy, gossip, jealousy, relentless sexual competitiveness, control, and shaming.
I’m not going to link to all the negativity, but these are real things in the world. There are some appalling gawdly women promoting outright racism, with huge blog followings of other Christians. We’re not talking about subtle racism here, political incorrectness, we’re talking about the old fashoned kind of racism that I consider to be quite blasphemous.
We have the women who police and shame other women for skirt lengths, hair styles, shoes, weight, and their marriages. This has nothing to do with Christ, this is plain old middle school mean girl behavior, conducted by women well past middle school. You haven’t really lived until you’ve watched these women tell other women they should just kill themselves. It’s ugly. Don’t claim Christ’s name and then act like that. It is not okay.
Today I discover yet another gawdly woman who has since gone viral after sending forth a picture comparing ham sandwiches and relating them to female chastity versus promiscuity. I so want this woman to be a poe, a parody, a satire, but I fear she is not. She’s allegedly written a book, An Elegant Life. Not elegant at all, just downright ugly.
Parody or not, she’s featured in the Daily Mail and many people will now presume she is representative of faith, of Christian women in general. So even if she is a total actress, a poe writing satire, there are still hundreds of people out there very much like her that leave many uncertain about what is spoof and what is truth.
So why are Godly women so needed today? Because we must speak up and become louder and drown out all these ugly voices. The Good News is uplifting, it is edifying, it is joyous, it is empowering. It is nothing like what you read on the internet. So where are all the young women? On the internet, reading this foolishness and rejecting faith outright. Young women are in a unique and percarious position these days. The world is full of confusion and chaos and they need to hear the gospel spoken as it was designed to be spoken.
They need their sisters, the real ones, loudly and boldly showing them that Jesus Christ truly loves His daughters.
Wow IB…I popped over there and was hit full in the face with some of the most racist stuff I have seen in my life. I would say thanks for that link, but I cannot.
That’s all I got to say about that.
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Sorry abut that, Wally, The only way I know to fix it is to drag it out into the sunlight, kind of like the way you drag a old musty blanket out and hang it on the clothesline,
I can’t post the videos, but to wash my brain clean, I’ve just watched 3 clips of cops praying. Really sweet, they walk up to homeless guy and they take his hands and just start praying for him. There is power in that, I just love to see it in action,
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Eh..I understand IB. Things must be confronted. So..let em bring it on. I didn’t have to click the link LOL.
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Good post but I decided I’m not going there. Maybe best to just say the name and let those who really want to see it look it up. I don’t know if the get a ping back – and if they do, then let them come here and meet a few of your faithful siblings in Christ!
Oh lawdy, don’t let me be gawdly!
Help me be filled with the power of your regenerating Holy Spirit:
2 Corinthians 4:16
“That’s why we are not discouraged. No, even if outwardly we are wearing out, inwardly we are being renewed each and every day.”
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O…M…G! PLEASE, Ms. Bytes, oh please tell me that IS satire, or sarcasm, or…or…or…
There is so much wrong in the post you linked to that the only thing that comes to mind is that you just can’t fix stupid. 😏
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I know, right? I’m hoping that is satire, a poe and not a real woman, That is way too much stupid.
On the bright side, it’s so nice to hear from you 🙂
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What is a poe?
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A poe is a little ghostly creature from a video game that you collect and put in a bottle.
He’s become an analogy for an actor, a faker on the internet who impersonates a caricature, usually by exaggeration.
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Thank you — that one is new to me.
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If we only could see ourselves as God sees us, the Bride of Christ, our hearts would rest and our love would rise and overflow to the refreshing of all others!
Isaiah 62New International Version (NIV)
Zion’s New Name
62 For Zion’s sake I will not keep silent,
for Jerusalem’s sake I will not remain quiet,
till her vindication shines out like the dawn,
her salvation like a blazing torch.
2 The nations will see your vindication,
and all kings your glory;
you will be called by a new name
that the mouth of the Lord will bestow.
3 You will be a crown of splendor in the Lord’s hand,
a royal diadem in the hand of your God.
4 No longer will they call you Deserted,
or name your land Desolate.
But you will be called Hephzibah,[a]
and your land Beulah[b];
for the Lord will take delight in you,
and your land will be married.
5 As a young man marries a young woman,
so will your Builder marry you;
as a bridegroom rejoices over his bride,
so will your God rejoice over you.
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Amen! Thank you for those words, refreshing love indeed. 🙂
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Amen!
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I knew a lady who was very righteous. Then one day a huge scandal hit her home. It was VERY big- concerning one of her children. It was all over the papers. She said that she realized that if it had been a neighbor or someone she knew, she would have been in front of the parade of judges, attackers, gossipers, etc against that family. She said she learned a huge lesson from that scandal. Maybe we pray that lessons be learned by other ‘righteous’ people- who I think sometimes judge because they are ignorant need to learn a lesson.
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That’s a really good point. I wouldn’t wish scandal on anybody, but some can be so self-righteous you wonder if they wouldn’t benefit from a good life lesson.
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Were the seeds of this one planted by the link Booky McBooketson left? She was the first person I ever read who made this distinction. I agree that it is a good distinction, witty in presentation also.
People who self proclaim as godly give me the willies.
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Most likely Booky McBooketson planted the seed. However, I am known for saying “oh gawd,” which sparked a good debate about taking the Lord’s name in vain a few years back. So that conviction along with Booky’s words are probably the reason why one must just roll their eyes sometimes and think yep, gawdly not Godly.;)
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Thanks for the hat tip!
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Hmm, I must be Melania Trump today. You can always have a hat tip from me or a promotion or whatever else you would like. 🙂
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The other site looks like sarcastic reverse psychological satire. It can’t possibly be for real
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One can only hope it is satire. Just the same, that is the false perception some have of Christians, isn’t it?
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It definitely seems to be a false meme like parody meant to defame Christians unfairly, I agree. I honestly don’t think she’s for real.
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But apparently, in the world of left wing, regressive nut jobs, this meme works to propagandize against conservative evangelical Christians. It’s unfair and not accurate, but there are those who will run with it and not check to see if the meme is real
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Yes, precisely. On the other hand, some of it bears enough hints of truth to make it hard to know if it is satire or not, meaning some of those calling themselves Christians need to clean up their act and those of us who would never dream of being so stupid need to grow much louder and bolder in order to drown out this kind of ugliness.
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I have never met Christians such as what she is trying to portray on her blog. Way too over the top to be true
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“I have never met Christians such as what she is trying to portray on her blog.”
I have, Kia. I wish you’d go find them too, instead of picking on those of us who simply want to offer people some love, hope, and good news. 🙂
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Point me the way and I’ll be your messenger 🙂
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LOL! Oh no, you can’t be my messenger. I’ve already tangled with quite a few of these people, so if you find them, best to avoid my name completely 🙂
Besides that is the kind of work one needs to consult with God about, not me.
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I don’t expect it to matter to you, but even I am inclined to think this woman is not what she claims to be. From what I read, she is not a Christian.
“So why are Godly women so needed today? Because we must speak up and become louder and drown out all these ugly voices.”
As to the matter of people presuming she is representative of Christian women, that is indeed a problem. I agree that godly women need to speak up for God. Unfortunately, that is unlikely to prevent people from thinking this woman is an example of how Christians think and act. Why? Because many non-believers want to believe that Christians are hypocritical and unloving. I believe many in the media strongly want to sustain or even extend this notion. Compare this to many people’s attitude toward the police. They assume the police have acted wrongly because some policemen have. They don’t care that most policemen act correctly, but insist on assuming the worst whenever bad happens.
In general, people will believe Satan’s lies before they will believe God’s truth.
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Of course what you think matters to me. Here’s the problem though,
“Because many non-believers want to believe that Christians are hypocritical and unloving. ”
Some of us really are. Rude, hypocritical, downright mean spirited. I’ll spare you more links.
So cops, yes there are many who want to believe they are evil,but does that erase the fact that we have really militarized our cops of late and created a dangerous situation? We have a responsibility to look at how we have contributed to the problem and to try to rectify it. To simply dismiss it and declare that people are just going to believe what they want to believe is not a productive solution.
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“To simply dismiss it and declare that people are just going to believe what they want to believe is not a productive solution.”
I did not “simply dismiss it”. I said “I agree that godly women need to speak up for God.” (and I should have said “godly people” rather than “godly women”).
What is the best way to speak up for God in this case? I propose that it might be regularly commenting on that person’s blog with an effort to counter their statements with the truth of God and showing His love. However, looking further at her blog, I don’t think it will make any difference. She is a complete and total mess.
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ooh, IB. You went there. 😉
The militarization of the police. I have quite a few in my acquaintance that are concerned about that. Perhaps I should say that they are far more concerned about it than I am, because it would be inaccurate to say that I see no issue with it whatsoever. Unfortunately I do see a LOT of flaws in the ways I have seen the problem being hollered about. One of my biggest qualms with it with a particular friend is that there are often articles posted that directly state, military equipment=militarized police and then go on to conflate all sorts of stuff without ever honestly dissecting the issue. High level equipment is needed for specific purposes in the military. Unfortunately it is also increasingly needed by police. And to make matters more complicated anything the government can have citizen’s also need to have access to in order for the second amendment to mean anything at all.
These topics deserve honest and wise attention to adapt our government and our citizenry to a world that our forefather’s did not foresee. Well some of them did. Some of them wrote about the fact that the American system would only work for so long as America remained a godly country. Having a rather high regard for the constitution I can’t help but advocate for our looking at the real intent and wording of what the constitution says about military, about not having military designed to be used against the citizenry and yes, the one thing it says about military equipment, firearms.
There definitely need to be some wise voices someday step forward and posit some real plans for where we are now to not allow for military force against the citizenry but also to adapt to our terrorism problems and the current state of our cities and towns that have extreme violent crime problems to allow the police to step up and keep civil order and at the same time to allow law abiding citizens to protect themselves…even from government. Our current understanding and rhetoric is NOT covering it from either end.
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Thanks, scratchmom. We do need to discuss militerization of cops, the changing nature of civilian policing. It’s a mess.
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Good pun!
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Amen! Plus feel free to come around anytime and leave links. 🙂
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Wow. I read the link. In Canada posting that garbage on a Canadian server or in any public way will get you jail time for promoting hatred. I am amazed that God has let that go on in His name. In my experience that type of hatred burns out fast.
Anyway, garbage that it is, it is pointless to even discuss it – she is God’s daughter and He is apparently OK with her words. He’ll deal with it when the time’s right.
Godly women. I’ll be honest with you IB, they are few and far between. I have a short checklist when it comes to picking a partner and one of the few criteria is that the woman has to have Faith. I have only met one IRL and she is married (Penny). And I lived a “normal” life, meeting people regularly. i would say that it would be a fine calling to increase the numbers of women with Faith.
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“i would say that it would be a fine calling to increase the numbers of women with Faith.”
And I’d say, that is exactly what you do just by being you, Paul. 🙂
I wish I could disagree with you, but I’m afraid I’ve met far too many of the gawdly and the un-gawdly, and very few of the Godly. When I do, it’s a real treat.
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You know many of the women I’ve met were church goers and proclaimed a faith but their daily actions were so judgmental and un-Godly that it was rather sickening. Someone like yourself who knows what it means to have Faith would be a good mentor to these women. Come to think of it, there have been very few women of Faith to provide mentoring in our culture – maybe that’s a part of the problem.
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Yes indeed, it can be rather sickening sometimes. Strangely enough, I think what keeps many men away from the church is fear of those gawdly women.
I empathize there, I’ve tangled with some of them on the internet. 🙂
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The title of the Blog is what really snagged me in…. You made a lot of excellent points and I enjoyed reading… I clicked on the link I stopped on the Kim K. post I could not read no more… I am not the one to Judge so I am not going to go there. Great post, you just got a new follower!
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What a wonderful and touching read! Very encouraging, indeed!
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Love this! Such a great challenge that all women need to hear.
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